Book Description
Best-selling author and distinguished professor, David Elkind provides parents with an understanding of and appreciation for the powerful role of "play" in healthy emotional and academic development
In modern childhood, free, unstructured play time is being replaced more and more by academics, lessons, competitive sports, and passive, electronic entertainment.
While parents may worry that their children will be at a disadvantage if they are not engaged in constant, explicit learning or using the latest "educational" games, David Elkind's The Power of Play reassures us that unscheduled imaginative play goes far in preparing children for academic and social success. Through expert analysis of the research and powerful situational examples, Elkind shows that, indeed, creative spontaneous activity best sets the stage for academic learning in the first place: Children learn mutual respect and cooperation through role-playing and the negotiation of rules, which in turn prepare them for successful classroom learning; in simply playing with rocks, for example, a child could discover properties of counting and shapes that are the underpinnings of math; even a toddler's babbling is a necessary precursor to the acquisition of language.
An important contribution to the literature about how children learn, The Power of Play suggests ways to restore play's respected place in children's lives, at home, at school, and in the larger community. In defense of unstructured "down time," it encourages parents to trust their instincts and resist the promise of the wide and dubious array of educational products on the market geared to youngsters.
Customer Reviews:
Good start..textbook finish.......2007-07-05
I couldn't agree more with Elkind that play is important. As a parent myself I hear others concerned that their children aren't getting enough "education," even at tiny toddler ages. Many parents get stressed and competative over academic issues before their children are even school age. And, if you are a parent who does not enroll your children in this and that, you are looked at as neglectful...or unconcerned about your children's futures. A current concern I have is the push for all day kindergarten (not mentioned in this book) but I fear it will overtake our half day programs here in MN in just a few years. While these programs may benefit some children, they are certainly not beneficial to all, and I'd even argue they are not beneficial to the majority of children.
The problem I had with Elkind's book is not the message, but rather the delivery of the message. While the first 4 chapters were enjoyble, the rest of the book reminded me of a college textbook. I didn't really enjoy reading it and most of it was repetative as I went to college for el. ed. and took several ed. psych. courses. Now, if you have not heard all these things before, you may be more interested in this book. Personally, as a parent, I found John Rosemond's A Family of Value (read chapters on toys) to be a much more interesting in presentation. Be prepared, however, with Rosemond because he is much more strongly opposed to screen time than Elkind appears to be. Regardless, both books relay a valuable message.
Interesting book...........2007-05-09
I enjoyed this book very much and found it refreshing compared to a lot of the alternatives on the shelves...but, if you are an outdoorsy, no TV, stay at home and look after your child, play, kind of person, I didn't gain a lot from it!
Not the book this important topic deserves.......2007-04-11
I firmly believe in the importance of free play. Essentially, I was looking for a book that would reinforce that belief. Instead, I found myself annoyed by the poor reasoning this book employs. In brief, the author seems to argue that things are different from the way he played as a boy and, therefore, they are worse. Different=worse is not a logical or valid argument.
For example, choosing teams the way they did when he was a boy and was always the last boy chosen made him feel ostracized. But it also prepared him for the real world. Electronic games deprive children of this sense of ostracization. Hmmm... I'm no fan of computer games for young children, but at this point in the book I'm feeling an urge to go out and buy some software for my little ones!
Aaahhh, the good old days when children were allowed to build campfires without supervision! So what if they got burned occasionally? It taught them to handle risk! The idea that there might be other forms of play that teach risk in a more constructive way is not addressed, and I wish it had been.
His argument is needlessly complicated. For example, he discusses the idea of hot and cool media, which is a powerful theoretical construct and which could have been very helpful in this book. (Hot media encourages passivity; cool media engages the child's thought and emotions). But his supporting examples entirely miss the mark. For example, he discusses a study which compared children who watched hot media (e.g., action shows) with those who watched cool media (i.e., educational shows) and found that those who watched hot media were less educationally gifted later on. Therefore, hot media is bad, and cool media is good. Ummmm... Did it never occur to him that maybe the children's educational achievements were related to the educational content they viewed and might have had nothing to do with the warmth of the media? That seems a far simpler and more parsimonious interpretation.
I expected a better quality of reasoning and more depth in this book. The only reason I'm not giving it one star is that it doesn't seem to be actively injurious. Unless, of course, some parent is swayed to let the children build a bonfire unsupervised after reading it...
Possibilities of Play.......2007-03-15
Elkind is my kind of guy. In this book he talks about balance, balance, balance. His book addresses play in children infancy thru the elementary years, for the most part. He talks about what play does exactly for children's intellect, social skills and imagination. I would suggest this book to parents of kids ages 0-7. Educators and the late elemantary set will get something from this book, but not as much as folks parenting and working with younger children.
What I have enjoyed so much about this book is that he is not extreme in his ideas. He endorses tv and video games mildly, and then leads parents into selecting the right kind of show or game. He talks about the pros and cons of these entertainment modes.
He talks about the balance of planned sports/activities, and free, individually motivated play. He offers some guidelines in this area.
He addresses his ideas developmentally, and explains each developmental stage. He will talk about kids in the "concrete operational stage" which usually happens around the age of 6, but sometimes sooner, sometimes later.
I think the American Public cannot read enough about the importance of play for children of all ages.In an age where recess is being eliminated from schools in order to raise test scores, we need work like Elkind's to remind us of the importance of not overscheduling our children.
This read, where I enjoyed it, isn't my favorite book. But I like the info within, I like how it is organized, and believe whole-heartedly in the point that David Elkind is making. It is an intelligent book, and doesn't "dummy-down" to the parent. I learned quite a bit, and as a mother and and educator appreciated that most of all.
The Most Important Thing in Your Life.......2007-02-17
The essense of this book can be stated pretty quickly.
Turn off the television.
Play games with the kid.
Encourage her to play with other kids.
Don't schedule every evening.
Carefully select toys/gifts.
Now all you have to do is understand each of these points and put them into practice.
Perhaps few points should leave you with a few questions like:
what kind of games to play?
What kinds of gifts/toys?
But I'm scheduling educational things?
Of course, reading this book will explain all these points and more. This book comes right after a major report on the importance of play by the American Academy of Pediatrics. It reflects on and expands the report to give specific suggestions, and explains why those suggestions are so important.
And I'm going to add one more of my own. Spend every moment you can with them. We have them for such a short time before they are gone off to live their own lives.
Average customer rating:
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This book describes how therapists can both facilitate constructive play therapy and intervene in posttraumatic play to help children who have been traumatized by abuse or neglect achieve a positive resolution. Traditional techniques of play therapy are reviewed for their application to this population. Throughout, numerous therapeutic aids are described to enhance the child's capacity to communicate verbally or symbolically. To help clinicians translate theory into daily practice, the book presents six detailed clinical vignettes that offer step-by-step guidelines for assessment and intervention in different situations of abuse or neglect.
Customer Reviews:
A must read if working with children.......2006-03-20
This is a must read if you are working with children. The author is one whom I consider the best in the field. It clearly defines all the basic principles of working with abused children and helps the new practitioner become familiar with the appropriate jargon in the field of play therapy. This is the "bible" of child therapy in my opinion and is priceless.
List of Reasons this is a good book:.......2005-05-31
I love this book and this author. I recommend looking at her other books!
Gil writes about many different types of child abuse. Her book is easily accessible because Gil separates her chapters into very understandable sub-headings. This makes it very easy to go back and search for a certain part. She also makes good use of bullets for simple lists and graphics of characteristics a child may show.
Gil implements a variety of case studies into the text (there's also a section dedicated simply to case studies) to show her point. She also cites many other physiatrist works to back up her points.
Gil does not just write about "the affects of child abuse," and how "traumatic child abuse is to children." She also gives an abundance of suggestions of what to do during therapy. She also includes her own outlines of "Therapeutic Goal" for each of her Case Studies at the end of the book.
I highly recommend "The Healing Power of Play."
child of abuse.......2004-03-06
I am a victim of sexual abuse. I have read books like NIGHTMARES ECHO,BEAUTY FOR ASHES and COURAGE TO HEAL to find help in my adult life to get over what happened to me as a child. Abuse doesn't just go away and the demons do haunt. When I found out about this book, I bought it as soon as I could.
I am very pleased there is a book like this available for the children now...rather than later down the road when the impact of abuse has taken its hold on them.
I do recommend that all Parents,Teachers etc. buy this book as well as the other two I had mentioned. Though NIGHTMARES ECHO and BEAUTY FOR ASHES are more adult oriented, I think that the parent,teacher,spuse etc can learn from these books and then help the child to over come the abuse with THE HEALING POWER OF PLAY.
I think this book was written well, and written for the regular reader to understand with out all of the large words that can confuse.
A classic.......2001-04-14
This is a must-have modern classic for the library of anyone working professionally with abused children. I would also recommend this book for the insight it provides to anyone adopting a child who may have gone through trauma or abuse. Clearly written, backed up with thorough research and guided by sensitive clinical skills, Eliana Gil's work is a primer on helping children work through trauma using their main mode of expression, play. If I could recommend only one book for training young professsionals embarking on the challenging and rewarding journey of helping kids who have been abused, this would be it.
Eliana Gil has a wonderful amount of insight to children.......1997-06-30
This book is a treasure for the beginning play therapist, as well as the experienced clinician working with issues of abuse. A work sprinkled with fascinating case examples and intriguing stories, this book is truly a must have for therapists
Book Description
Learn the Plays
Make Your Move
- Build an IKEA-style global brand the way
Ingvar Kamprad does
- Use
Hans Straberg's tactics at Electrolux to sweep in profits
- Bank on thinking locally like Citigroup's
Steven Freiberg
- Keep your company tuned in the way
Judy McGrath does at MTV
And get in the game with the Monday Morning strategies and inside plays of the world's top business champions.
BusinessWeek Power Plays
Leadership Power Plays
Strategy Power Plays
Game On.
Visit businessweek.com/powerplays
Customer Reviews:
POOR MARKETING SKILLS??????????????.......2007-05-12
GET OUT OF THE BOX , PLEASE PLEASE , NO MORE
" H Y P O T H E S I S " YOUR MAKING TO MANY ASSERTIONS.
BE REAL STAY OUT OF THAT BOX, AND DO YOUR MARKETING RESEARCH SAME GOES FOR YOUR STRATEGY AND LEADERSHIP BOOKS.
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P.S. BUSINESSWEEK YOU DISAPPOINTED ME.
Mini-Case Studies of Ingenious Marketing.......2007-04-26
This is one of three anthologies of articles that first appeared in BusinessWeek magazine, the others focusing on strategy and leadership. The appeal and value of the material will obviously be determined by each reader's own interests. The same is true of other series, notably "Harvard Business Review on...." I really appreciate having these collections of articles because (a) I may not have read all of them the first time around, (b) assembled as they are in a single volume, I can easily compare and contrast the given executives and/or companies and/or issues, and (c) having the volume near at hand means I can easily locate one or more articles whenever I need to review specific material. I also appreciate the fact that it is "totable." Stephen J. Adler wrote the Introduction to each of the three volumes.
In Marketing Power Plays, the focus is on "how the world's most ingenious marketers reach the top of their game." Only a few of the executives featured (one per chapter in each of 15 chapters) will be familiar to most readers, notably Jeff Immelt (GE), Steve Jobs (Apple Computer) and Russell Simmons (Def Jam and Phat Farm). Then in a "Trends" section which follows the final chapter, readers are provided with an additional commentary based on material which appeared in a number of different articles: "Reaching an Audience of One: Buzz Marketing, the Vanishing Mass Market, and Cult Brands."
For example, here is the "Monday Morning" material that concludes Susan Berfield's article about Russell Simmons, written with Diane Brady and Tom Lowry:
The Problem: Maintaining company growth as hip-hop inevitably fades in popularity with the youth market; keeping the business' cutting edge status even while partnering with decidedly unhip megacompanies.
The Solution: Offer a diversity of products, from children's and adult clothing to athletic wear and debit cards; Forge relationships with corporate giants that will enable the company to extend its reach. Maintain the integrity of the brand through philanthropic and political ventures that will underscore the company's commitment to hip-hop culture.
Sustaining the Win: Continue to focus on building the business' mainstream popularity so that it will continue to thrive even when hip-hop is no longer hip.
The emphasis in this and in each of the other chapters is on "what" to do and then on "how" it was done. Of course, there are several excellent books that explore positioning, marketing, brand management, etc. in much greater depth, certainly more than any article or anthology can. For most executives, however, Marketing Power Play's greatest value will be derived from lessons to be learned from a number of quite different situations in which ingenious marketers either created or increased demand in the face of sometimes ferocious competition.
Book Description
Learn the Plays
Make Your Move
- Take a page from
Jeff Bezos at Amazon.com and reinvent your company
- Turn your business direction on a dime like
Michael Dell
- Find your drive for customer satisfaction with
Edouard Michelin
- Dial in collaboration using
Edward Zander's tactics at Motorola
And get in the game with the Monday Morning strategies and inside plays of the world's top business champions.
BusinessWeek Power Plays
Marketing Power Plays
Leadership Power Plays
Game On.
Visit businessweek.com/powerplays
Customer Reviews:
Mini-Case Studies of Successful Strategies.......2007-04-26
This is one of three anthologies of articles which first appeared in BusinessWeek magazine, the others focusing on leadership and marketing. The appeal and value of the material will obviously be determined by each reader's own interests. The same is true of other series, notably "Harvard Business Review on...." I really appreciate having these collections of articles because (a) I may not have read all of them the first time around, (b) assembled as they are in a single volume, I can easily compare and contrast the given executives and/or companies and/or issues, and (c) having the volume near at hand means I can easily locate one or more articles whenever I need to review specific material. I also appreciate the fact that it is "totable." Stephen J. Adler wrote the Introduction to each of the three volumes.
In Strategy Power Plays, the focus is on "how the world's most strategic minds reach the top of their game." Featured CEOs include Jeff Bezos (Amazon), John Chambers (Cisco Systems), Michael Dell (Dell Computer), Michael Askew (UPS), Sam Palmisano (IBM), and Ken Chenault (American Express). Each of 14 chapters examines a specific company in which an appropriate strategy, effectively executed, helped to achieve its desired objectives. Then in a "Trends" section that follows the final chapter, readers are provided with an additional article written by Peter Engardio, "Business Prophet C.K. Prahalad is Changing the Way People Think."
I especially appreciate the narrative format which includes three reader-friendly devices: a "Lesson Plan" at the beginning of each chapter, a series of "Power Moves" throughout its narrative, and then a "Monday Morning..."review at its conclusion. These devices anchor the reader in a real-world situation, focus on the given strategic challenge, track responses to it, and offer suggestions for "sustaining the win. "
For example, here is the "Monday Morning" material that concludes Peter Burrows' article about Cisco Systems:
The Problem: Adapting an organization's aggressive growth strategy to a drastically slower market
The Solution: Instill discipline into every aspect of the business: strategy, systems, people, and culture
Sustaining the Win: Stay true to your new businesses processes, even when business starts to pick up
The emphasis in this and in each of the other chapters is on "what" to do and then on "how" it was done. Of course, there are several excellent books that devote all of their attention to a single company such as Cisco Systems and to a CEO such as John Chambers. Those who desire more information about a given company are urged to consult other sources. For most executives, however, this anthology's greatest value will be derived from lessons to be learned from a number of quite different situations in which an appropriate strategy helped, either to solve a serious problem or to take full advantage of a major opportunity.
Don't bother.......2007-02-05
This book is a dull melange of old Business Week articles, including the usual sycophantic CEO hagiography.
Book Description
Learn the Plays
Make Your Move
- Establish responsibility at every level like
Jamie Houghton at Corning
- Learn from
T.K. Kurien to emulate top players the Wipro way
- Put the fash back in your organization like Canon's
Fujio Mitarai
- Use
Steve Ballmer's tactics at Microsoft to command a company in transition
And get in the game with the Monday Morning strategies and inside plays of the world's top business champions.
BusinessWeek Power Plays
Marketing Power Plays
Strategy Power Plays
Game On.
Visit businessweek.com/powerplays
Customer Reviews:
Mini-Case Studies of Successful Leaders.......2007-04-26
This is one of three anthologies of articles which first appeared in BusinessWeek magazine, the others focusing on strategy and marketing. The appeal and value of the material will obviously be determined by each reader's own interests. The same is true of other series, notably "Harvard Business Review on...." I really appreciate having these collections of articles because (a) I may not have read all of them the first time around, (b) assembled as they are in a single volume, I can easily compare and contrast the given executives and/or companies and/or issues, and (c) having the volume near at hand means I can easily locate one or more articles whenever I need to review specific material. I also appreciate the fact that it is "totable." Stephen J. Adler wrote the Introduction to each of the three volumes.
In Leadership Power Plays, the focus is on "how the world's most powerful executives reach the top of their game." A separate chapter is devoted to each of 14 exceptional leaders who include the usual suspects who include Jack Welch (GE), Steve Ballmer (Microsoft), Carlos Ghosn (Renault and Nissan), and Dick Parsons (AOL Time Warner) but of greater interest to me are several lesser-known but nonetheless exceptional leaders such as George David (UTC), Jamie Houghton (Corning), Howard Solomon (Forest laboratories), and Fujio Mitarai (Canon). Then in a "Trends" section which follows the final chapter, readers are provided with an additional article written by John A. Byrne with Lindsey Gerdes, "The Man Who Invented Management: Why Peter Drucker's Ideas Still Matter."
For example, here is the "Monday Morning" material at the conclusion of Brian Bremner's article about Carlos Ghosn and his leadership of Nissan:
Problem: Turning around a company in the face of internal resistance, dwindling revenues, and a struggling brand
The Solution: Sustain lightning-quick execution without sacrificing product quality. Set ambitious goals and empower your team with the tools and the space to achieve them. Motivate your troops with the levers that matter to them.
Sustaining the Win: Collaborate with corporate parents, even when personal styles clash.
The emphasis in this and in each of the other chapters is on "what" to do and then on "how" it was done. Of course, there are several excellent books that devote all of their attention to Carlos Ghosn and can therefore provide more information about him than Bremner can in a magazine article. Those who desire more information about any of the 14 executives are urged to consult other sources. For most of us, however, this anthology's greatest value will be derived from lessons to be learned from a number of quite different leaders who were at "the top of their game" when responding to major challenges.
Book Description
Rick Maurer introduces you to a high integrity process that engages you and the other person in creating outcomes you both fully support. He shows you how to turn resistance into support and use 6 principles of engagement to help you persuade while you build the relationship and get your ideas put into action.
Customer Reviews:
It is OK.......2006-07-03
The book makes some good points and does help guide you in doing better in this area. The reading is a little dry. I got bored and put the book down several times. This is a complete opposite to another book I recently read. "Customer Satisfaction is Worthless. Customer Loyalty is Priceless." I could not put the book down.
My 2 cents worth.
I Want other People to Read this Book.......2004-08-08
The approach in Rick Maurer's "Why Don't You Want What I Want?" reminds me of a great deal of Dale Carnegie's, "How to Win Friends and Influence People." It basically is a human relations approach to communication and teamwork. If you work in an environment that requires you to work collaboratively, this book is a must.
Maurer truly takes a practical approach to the rare skill of collaboration of ideas. He starts by exploring different levels of resistance and how much a serious barrier to collaboration those levels can be. Next, he explores six steps for engagement with the central principle that true active listening can make all the difference. Maurer concludes by expanding these ideas and concepts beyond the mere world of work to the family.
This book really hit home with me. I'm a Director of a non-profit agency and in my work the skills of collaboration are critical and integral in working with constituents to moving towards a common goal and in a common direction. With one of our constituent groups, we had reached a stage of near impasse and Maurer's book helped our organization move through that situation and even move beyond that to start rebuilding trust. If Maurer's common-sense ideas of human relations are listened to and practiced, it can pay huge dividends in trying to achieve a greater good.
This book comes highly recommended.
--MMW
Maurer Makes Practical Sense.......2002-10-03
'Why Don't You Want What I Want' sits on my business shelves as one of a very short list of books that I consider useful, practical and provocative references, both in support of my learning and of the work I do with clients.
Rick Maurer has that rare ability to blend practical and concrete experience with a healthy dose of self-deprecating humor, and then set it in the context of a sound theoretical footing. Rick's earlier books were thoughtful and useful; this one is the best yet in its ability to integrate ideas with action.
Of most value to me in my coaching of leaders was the extended discussion of the Principles of Engagement, touchstones for those seeking dialogue and opportunities to influence outcomes. In particular, the chapter on avoiding Knee-Jerk responses has served me well as I work with men and women whose needs and wants often differ from my own.
This book flows. Interviews with those whose experience relates to the point Maurer is making, strengthen the book throughout. I was left with a commitment to try new approaches to bringing value to my client work, largely, I think, because of the creative, engaging style of the author. Maurer makes you smile and Maurer makes you think!
I turned down more page corners in this book than in many I have read recently. This is a true 'working copy'; it is a book I turn to when I am looking for perspective or fresh thinking about impact and influence.
Finally, I bought copies of the book for some of my clients, in particular those who have the challenge of developing effective, committed teams quickly. Now they can consider some of Rick Maurer's ideas and perspectives directly as we work on approaches to their impact on the business.
Why Don't You Want What I Want?.......2002-08-21
I've read all of Rick Maurer's books. They are supposedly for business leaders and managers, but I find them highly personal. None disappoints. Each enlightens and enlivens. And so with "Why Don't You Want What I want?". If one wants to support living a life of integrity, at work or at home,this book has many answers. Rick proposes that winning support for one's ideas and agenda be based on honest relationship, not one fraught with manipulation and/or coercion. As a consultant and trainer I have found with very few exceptions that my clients are good at lobbying for their point of view but lack the attitude and therefore the ability to genuinely inquire into another's. These (lobbying and inquiring) must come more into balance, says the author, if others are to join us rather than make it their raison d'etre to resist us. We also must know our intentions. While I think " knowing my true intentions" takes the maturity and the skill of being a competent observer of myself (and this is far from easy), Rick Maurer makes some distinctions and offers tools that lighten the task for the willing. As a matter of fact, that's one of the high points of reading this (or any) Rick Maurer book. It's simply written, makes sense against my personal and professional experience, is witty and funny. But what attracts me most to "Why Don't You Want What I Want?" is that I can use it to "stay on purpose," and my purpose is to enhance my personal power and that of others in my business and personal life. Building commitment, strategies for avoiding resistance in the first place, and dealing with it when I have to are part of my every day. I enjoy competence in those domains. "Why Don't You Want What I Want" has moved me to a higher level of competence. I've passed a copy on to some of my clients. Invariably the title alone has captured their interest. That tells me there is a need out there for practical answers to the question "Why Don't You Want What I Want?". Rick Maurer's book has them.
Reader friendly, innovative, and practical.......2002-08-04
Why Don't You Want What I Want?: How To Win Support For Your Ideas With Hard Sell, Manipulation, Or Power Plays is an informed and informative work specifically written by organization change consultant and public speaker Rick Maurer for business executives, managers, and salespeople who need to garner support and unity from colleagues and associates in order to get their job done. Why Don't You Want What I Want is also very strongly recommended reading for anyone in the private or public sectors facing the complex task for getting a group to rally to the cause. Individual chapters address presenting one's position in the most persuasive manner; avoiding knee-jerk reactions; building trust even in a hostile environment; and a great deal more. Reader friendly, innovative, and practical, Why Don't You Want What I Want? can and will enable anyone to peacefully influence a loved one in ways that will enhance familial bonds or friends in a manner that will strengthen and deepen friendship.
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Dick Morris is one of America's sharpest political minds. As a professional consultant, he has helped candidates from both parties understand public opinion and win elections--most notably President Clinton in 1996 (an experience Morris described in the bestselling book Behind the Oval Office). He is also a founding father of "triangulation," a strategy Clinton employed to great effect; according to Morris, George W. Bush also uses it quite well. "The identification of certain problems with certain parties or factions opens up a magnificent strategic opportunity: the chance to solve the other side's problems," writes Morris in Power Plays. In other words, if public concerns about welfare dependency drive voters toward the GOP, then Democrats ought to confront this issue head-on. "Solve the problems that keep the other side in business, and it will go broke. Give them what they want and they will go away." Power Plays, however, is not simply a primer on triangulation; it is an analysis of how various political strategies have helped and hindered candidates. Morris writes at length about determining when standing for principle works and when it doesn't, as well as a number of other approaches, including "divide and conquer" and "reform your own party." This is a first-rate book for readers who enjoy the gamesmanship of politics.
Book Description
Dick Morris is the frankest and most outspoken political analyst in America today. His commentary on the Clinton White House, the 2000 election, and the rise of George W. Bush has been marked by the sharpeyed political savvy only an insider can bring to bear.Now, in Power Plays, Morris provides a revealing context for the machinations of contemporary politics. Casting an eye across the annals of history, Morris investigates 20 of the most dramatic political moves of all time -- from the wildly effective to the disastrous. From Abraham Lincoln splitting the opposition over slavery, to Winston Churchill's emergence from obscurity to lead Britain through WWII; from Ronald Reagan and his conservative doctrine taking over the country, to George W. Bush co-opting Democratic issues under the banner of "compassionate conservatism" -- Morris illuminates these and many other gambits through his uniquely insightful perspective. Equally compelling on successes and failures of the past-including the real reason A] Gore lost in 2000.
Customer Reviews:
Interesting, even if it is a bit simplified (a history teacher's review).......2007-07-03
Dick Morris, Washington insider turned political analyst, knows all about political strategy. He was once an advisor to Bill Clinton and is credited with coming up with Clinton's famed "triangulation" strategy. In this book, Morris identfies six political strategies that can lead to political success. Interestingly, he provides 20 splendid examples of how these strategies have been misplayed and have led to failure.
The six strategies are:
1. "Stand on Principle"
2. "Triangulate"
3. "Divide and Conquer"
4. "Reform your own Party"
5. "Use a new technology"
6. "Mobilizing the Nation in Times of Crisis"
Sometimes, Morris oversells his explanations. For example, he places Lincoln in the "Divide and Conquer" category, since the Democrats split themselves into three parties in the election of 1860 and allowed Lincoln to win the Presidential election. That makes sense, since the Democrats divided and the Republicans conquered. However, Morris makes it sound like Lincoln maneuvered the Democrats into their crisis as part of his master plan that began with comments and questions raised during the Lincoln/Douglas debates in 1858, rather then simply taking advantage of the split. Lincoln was a political genius, but Morris oversimplifies here.
I mentioned at the top that I am a history teacher. I am also a Spanish teacher and Morris quotes George W. Bush speaking Spanish in a campaign speech: "Muchos espanos viver en ese estado". That's not Spanish. That's not even Spanglish. I've heard Bush speak Spanish. It is nothing to brag about, but it is definitely serviceable. It threw the rest of Morris' research into doubt since he had obviously not even bothered to talk to any Spanish speaker to see if his attempt to write down Bush's Spanish words were even correct. Double checking research is always important. By the way, it should have been "Muchos hispanos viven en ese estado."
So, I give this one a B+. The grade was not really reduced because of the Spanish thing, although it left some nagging doubts and was a major pet peeve.
Political Strategies.......2007-04-17
Dick Morris Fox television network political analyst and former Clinton advisor identifies six strategies used by politicians throughout history. Morris presents twenty case studies--from Lincoln's Civil War tactics to Al Gore's 2000 presidential campaign--assessing successes and failures in each. Includes commentary on the September 11, 2001, terrorist attacks and the U.S. government's response. A must read book for all aspiring politicians.
Insight into Morris's Ability as Political Strategist.......2006-04-30
Morris is a political strategist and pollster of the first order, with the curriculum vitae and results to prove it. For this book he has distilled and collected from great leaders of the past and present some insights into political leadership. They are observations and illuminations brought out for the readers perusal.
I think the book highlights strong, courageous, decisive leadership, something of a rarity these days. By juxtapositioning those pearls against the mundane and self-seeking politicians, Morris is able to drive home the value of the former.
It should be a primer for those who want to lead. Study the best traits of the best leaders. Many, like Lincoln and Churchill faced immense obstacles and were arguably the man for the hour. Morris also plays out those who attempted great things but didn't have greatness in them.
Brilliant............2006-01-31
As George Stephanopolous said of Bill Clinton, "When things are in the dumps and getting worse, Morris is the first person he calls." Morris is a genius. Do people really know just how much of Bill Clinton's political life has been shaped and constructed by Dick Morris?? He is the mastermind. Like Karl Rove is now to George Bush, Morris was Clinton's #1 advisor. This book is a must read.
A political masterpiece.......2005-09-30
No one understands politics like Dick Morris -- he helped start, then rescue, the one President who knew politics was an art -- Bill Clinton. Whatever one may think about Clinton's policies, he was a man who knew how to play the game and play politics, and he got it all from Dick Morris. Morris is the greatest political strategist of the last 50 years (Karl Rove could learn a thing or two from Morris). Morris' principles on how to get ahead in politics can help anyone in any field where competition exists -- business, sports, politics, anywhere in the real world. People should heed Mr. Morris' words if they really want to know what it takes to get ahead at all costs.
Book Description
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From Cole's downfall and Phoebe's somewhat questionable fashion sense to the power of three in history and literature and a magical tourist's guide to the Halliwells's hometown of San Francisco, this clever, lighthearted essay collection offers a fun and funny look at the world of the WB hit series Charmed. Edited by New York Times bestselling author Jennifer Crusie, these accessible and entertaining essays apply the wit and insight of one of today's leading romance authors to the stylish, occasionally campy fan favorite known for its scandalous outfits, revolving door of love interests, and the magical mayhem of three otherwise normal sisters who must fight against evil as they deal with the challenges of everyday life.
Customer Reviews:
I love the charmed ones.......2007-05-16
I really thought it was different than it was. I found it a bit on the boring side and a bit of a mistake. The only interesting thing was it was about the charmed ones.
Totally Charmed:Demons,Whitelighters adn the Power of 3.......2006-03-16
I thought this book was good but it needed more about the show and less opinions. I would recommend this book to people who have follow the show but not for people that have not.
so not charmed.......2006-03-01
I found this book wasn't worth the money I paid for it. All it did was go on about how sexy Cole Turner and the older version of Chris was, what the girls were wearing and the power the girls have. But worse of all they did nothing but rubbish Leo and rave about women's lib. For me in the series, Leo is my favourite character, to me he makes the show, he shows the love he has for Piper and his two boys as well as fighting evil. He might be a whitelighter but to me he holds the family together, he's down to earth and trust worthy. As far as Cole goes if people only watch the show to see how sexy the men or women are then they're missing the whole meaning of the show! I have never liked Julian Mc Mahon even when he was in Home and Away. I think he loves himself and thinks he's just it! And frankly, he's nothing! Look what he did to his wife in real life? Married a few months and having an affair. They also wanted to get rid of Grams and the girl's mother and how glad they were that Prue is dead, I think the people who wrote this book are only interested in what is and isn't sexy and the power the girls have. They appear to have boring lives themselves and have to have television to have fantasies about what they're lives might of been. I mean if your a true lover of the show who cares who is better in bed a demon (Cole) or a whitelighter (Leo), or if Cole has a hairier chest than Leo? These people want Charmed to be a boring everyone's in bed soap opera or something similar. They aren't interested in the real meaning of the show! I have been too many charmed sites and hundreds of people have e-mailed these sites saying how upset they were that Leo is getting the axe. If amazon had zero then this is what I would of given this book, I found it very disappointing. I know my opinion doesn't amount to much, but I would suggest to others don't worry about getting this book because it isn't worth it if you are a true Charmed fan! Which these people who wrote in this book can't be! They're too busy living in the land of fairies!
Charmed & Dangerous.......2006-01-01
This book compiles a gaggle of essays on the facts, fans, flaws and fallacies of "Charmed." The chapters are written by a variety of fantasy, science fiction and romance novelists, modern witches, essayists, columnists, film critics, scientists and more.
The funny thing is, being a non-member of the "Charmed" fanverse, I expected to get bored with the book and quickly hand it off to another reviewer. But no, instead I found myself enjoying these deep, analytical explorations of a show I rarely watched. The hypotheses made and the arguments supporting them are interesting, and often quite fun. ("Charmed" fans must, by the show's very nature, have a good sense of humor, and that comes through in many of these essays.)
I can't say whether or not I'll become a fan of the show. But "Totally Charmed" has me wanting to turn on the television and give it a chance, and that has to be a victory for the writers.
Intellectual Fun.......2005-11-12
"Charmed" has always been a show that more than what it seemed. It was never really about 3 sisters with magical powers, but 3 sisters and their dynamic. That's one of the things that I loved about this book - it takes the ideas presented in the series over the course of the past 7 years (not including the current 8th season) and examine them. My favorite is the article discussing Piper's powers that both freeze and speed up time. Personally, I've always believed in magic, but I'm also aware that most of magic is just science. To learn that there is actually a scientific theory behind her power was absolutely fascinating.
So if you're looking for something a little different to read, pick this one up. You won't regret it.
Book Description
Thousands of young people set their sights on becoming professional actors each year, hoping to get a foot in the door with a solid resumé built in high school, college, and local theatre company productions. But competition for parts is fierce, and no list of credits is complete without competency in the classical works of Shakespeare. Will Power guides both professional actors and aspirants through a lively 21-day rehearsal process leading up to the day of an actual audition or performance. Actors need never again be confused about where to begin or how to follow through when developing a Shakespearean role. Clear stepping stones have been laid out before them-by Shakespeare himself. Even seasoned actors, familiar with verse, are fascinated when they learn about the acting clues and stage directions embedded in the original First Folio text of Shakespeare's work, in the form of particular punctuation, capitalized letters, and spelling. Putting actors on their feet in dynamic and fun rehearsals, this practical guide helps them develop the 7 Cs of acting: commitment, concentration, conditioning, control, confidence, courage, and clarity while also demystifying how to perform these these magnificently crafted plays.
Customer Reviews:
Teaches the many opportunities and avenues available for exploring Shakespeare's plays.......2006-12-11
WILL POWER: HOW TO ACT SHAKESPEARE IN 21 DAYS guides actors through the three-week rehearsal process which leads to an understanding of performance options of Shakespeare's plays, and comes from a teacher of the First Folio approach to Shakespearean directing and acting. His techniques have been developed for all kinds of performances: any high school to adult Shakespearean drama group must have this: it teaches the many opportunities and avenues available for exploring Shakespeare's plays, relating these opportunities to acting development as a hwole.
Diane C. Donovan
California Bookwatch
Excellent Book!.......2006-11-26
I am a Sophomore at Montclair State University, and I am currently enrolled in John Basil's Acting Class. The book is the required reading, and I am not in the least bit displeased! I thoroughly enjoyed this book, and it helped me a lot with my Shakespeare scene in class. John Basil is an amazing professor, and I only hope I get to work with him again in the future! I would recommend this book to anyone who is entering the world of theatre or acting!
Get Invigorated.......2006-11-09
John Basil is a fantastic acting teacher and I am thrilled with his book Will Power. This is a wonderful articulation of his style, focus, and gift for teaching Shakespeare. The lessons in this book will help actors discover the layers of meaning in Shakespeare's language, and then use that knowledge to put bold character choices into action. These skills work wonderfully with Shakespeare and can also be applied to other plays written in heightened language. Sophocles, Sheridan, and Shaw, as well as Shakespeare, will feel invigorating rather than intimidating for the actor equipped with Basil's techniques. I use many of these same techniques when auditioning for or acting in commercials. After working through Shakespeare, making sense of medical jargon is easy. Whether you're a seasoned professional or a student, if you work through this book and apply these techniques consistently and courageously, you will learn to act Shakespeare in a realized and compelling way. This book would also be an excellent text for a university acting course focusing on Shakespeare. Over the years I have introduced my college students to Basil's techniques. Now that Basil's written this book, I can't wait to guide them through Will Power.
Best book ever!.......2006-11-07
It doesn't matter if you are a high school student trying to get the hang of the language or a professional actor trying to improve on your knowlege this book will help. Straightforward, logical and lots and lots of fun.
The play's the thing - just DO it!.......2006-11-03
John Basil is on a mission to end "butt-acting" - the kind where you just sit in a chair and silently read a play. Bringing Shakespeare's great words to life is the highest artistic goal of many actors, and the best work hard at conditioning their voices and bodies, often for decades, to do his great roles justice. Basil understands that the most productive and entertaining way to study Shakespeare is on one's feet!
Book Description
Move to live, live to move! Health and fitness is a bushy, multi-disciplinary practice that includes body, mind, spirit and the creative imagination. Exuberant Animal explores the totality of human health and promotes a truly integrated approach that spans culture, biology, psychology and animal behavior. You'll discover powerful new ideas for movement and living that will stimulate your vitality, creativity and enthusiasm. "Frank is a superb writer. His voice is clear, accurate and accessible." Robert Sapolsky "No joy, no gain!-that might well be Frank Forencich's exercise motto. A nation filled with fit, playful hominids fully in touch with their evolutionary heritage is a true pleasure to contemplate." Bill McKibben "I really appreciate Frank's innovative approach. His method is sophisticated, playful and holistic." Debbie Armstrong 1984 Olympic Gold Medalist
Customer Reviews:
Rethink how you move.......2007-08-10
Our world is increasingly technologized; leaving us sitting, inactive before the glowing screens of computer and TVs. We forget the joys of fresh air and physical movement, even when we feel the need to exercise, it is usually for the habitrail machinery of the gym.
Forencich challenges us to rethink the way we move, and rediscover our innate play instinct. Read this book and lead by example: get out there and have fun!
Exuberant Animal, an outstanding read!.......2007-07-21
I have been teaching fitness and outdoor recreation for more than two decades, and have come across only a few books that are supportive about using a creative, nurturing, and playful appoach to encourage people to get moving. Not only is this book packed with wonderful information, it was also truly a pleasure to read. The concepts presented in the Exuberant Animal, are also very similar the pholosphies practiced in the Nia Technique (another book available on Amazon.com) The Nia Technique: The High-Powered Energizing Workout that Gives You a New Body and a New Life. If after reading the Exuberant Animal, you are motivated to exercise in a way that is creative, playful, and full of joyful movement, look to see if there is a Nia studio in your town and you will find yourself playing and dancing through the rest of your life!
Healthy body, healthy mind, healthy Being.......2006-12-14
As someone with decades of being "rewarded" for sitting still in thought-work - by parents, teachers, bosses, and the hypnotizing eyes of the TV and computer screens - Exuberant Animal helps wake me up from insidious trance of "my mind is separate from and more important than my body." Frank's essays are playfully sculpted snowballs thrown at my subconscious limiting beliefs. In each, Frank lobs a first bracing splat of fresh perspective, then circles us with the latest thoughts from movement physiology, neuroscience, evolutionary biology, anthropology, and universal notions of spiritual quest. Like one of his conditioning play games, I delight in catching more snowballs from all sides until I have to take a deep breath, laughing at how crazy-upside-down I've been living my life. I'm left with inspiring insights about small and easy things I can do throughout the day that add up to a big difference. I don't need to overhaul my lifestyle with the "discipline to achieve" fitness. I simply need to have FUN tuning into the playful, moving, sentient animal I am meant to be.
Cuts to the essence of natural health.......2006-11-09
I had so much fun reading this book! Perfect for all of us who sense that some very simple shifts in perspective on health (and being human in general) could be the secret remedy for our bodies and souls in this ailing culture. I really hope that parents, teachers, coaches, healthcare practitioners and especially young people all over America will read this book and pass it along. Frank Forencich has shaken out the insanity from the American jar of health and fitness information, and then refilled it with purely sensible wisdom. This book offers something much more important than a new exercise routine or fad nutrition advice - real empowerment to start living life fully, the way our biology always meant for us to do. The great physique, extra energy and high spirits follow naturally.
Read, Live and Learn.......2006-11-06
There are very few books written about the potential influence of our primal heritage on our current lives, and there are even fewer that are written so accessably and entertainingly as Frank Forencichs Exuberant Animal. This is a book for everyone and the sheer "sense" of Franks wisdom on this subject shines through the pages. Thought provoking and offering genuinely new insights....and some great stories. Don't go thinking this is some obscure science book...take one on holiday, it might get you off the sun lounger.
Bob Wood, Physical Solutions, UK
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