The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Could be The Answer
  • Enlightening
  • Enlightning
  • Jonesy
  • Finding Inner Peace
The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict
The Arbinger Institute
Manufacturer: Berrett-Koehler Publishers, Inc.
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Hardcover

GeneralGeneral | Self-Help | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Personal TransformationPersonal Transformation | Self-Help | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Mental Health | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Conflict ManagementConflict Management | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
War & PeaceWar & Peace | Current Events | Nonfiction | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Social Sciences | Nonfiction | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
Mental & Spiritual HealingMental & Spiritual Healing | New Age | Religion & Spirituality | Subjects | Books
Look Inside Health BooksLook Inside Health Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Nonfiction BooksLook Inside Nonfiction Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Parenting BooksLook Inside Parenting Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Religion & Spirituality BooksLook Inside Religion & Spirituality Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Similar Items:
  1. Leadership and Self Deception: Getting Out of the Box Leadership and Self Deception: Getting Out of the Box
  2. Bonds That Make Us Free: Healing Our Relationships, Coming to Ourselves Bonds That Make Us Free: Healing Our Relationships, Coming to Ourselves
  3. Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes are High
  4. The Peacegiver: How Christ Offers to Heal Hearts and Homes The Peacegiver: How Christ Offers to Heal Hearts and Homes
  5. The Mormon Way of Doing Business: Leadership and Success Through Faith and Family The Mormon Way of Doing Business: Leadership and Success Through Faith and Family

ASIN: 1576753344

Book Description

What if conflicts at home, conflicts at work, and conflicts in the world stem from the same root cause? And what if individually and collectively we systematically misunderstand that cause, and unwittingly perpetuate the very problems we think we are trying to solve?
Through an intriguing story of parents struggling with their troubled children and with their own personal problems, The Anatomy of Peace shows how to get past the preconceived ideas and self-justifying reactions that keep us from seeing the world clearly and dealing with it effectively. Yusuf al-Falah, an Arab, and Avi Rozen, a Jew, each lost his father at the hands of the other's ethnic cousins. As the story unfolds, we discover how they came together, how they help warring parents and children to come together, and how we too can find our way out of the struggles that weigh us down. The choice between peace and war lies within us. As one of the characters says, "A solution to the inner war solves the outer war as well." This book offers more than hope — it shows how we can prevent the conflicts that cause so much pain in our lives and in the world.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Could be The Answer.......2007-10-10

This is a great book for anyone looking for answers to difficult relationship situations. You can only change yourself and the way you think but that can make all the difference.

5 out of 5 stars Enlightening.......2007-10-10

This book is particularly enlightening. The basic premises of the book have changed the way I look at people. These include family, neighbors, and the guy in the car next to me on the freeway. I have found myself more patient with others, kinder in my responses to others, and enjoying the benefits that come when the other people are treated with consideration.

5 out of 5 stars Enlightning.......2007-09-15

This is a wonderful book that takes you on a journey of self discovery. It is a must for anyone that really wants to understand why they have problems in any relationship and how to change them for the better. The book is well worth the price, and time to read it. If the things you read are implemented it will change your life!

5 out of 5 stars Jonesy.......2007-09-12

Many books are described as life changing. This is that rare one that is truly life changing. Having read Terry Warner's book, Bonds That Heal, I had some background in the philosophy and was already impressed with the profound changes that were possible if an individual, or company or nation, was committed to living these concepts and making them a part of the fabric of their life.

That said, as I spoke to others about Bonds That Heal it become apparent that some individuals were intimadated by the depth of thought required to read and understand Mr. Warner's work. Anatomy of Peace is written in parable form that makes it an easy read. Although the story is simple it engages the readers' emotions and sympathy and opens their heart and mind to change.

I am glad to have found both of these books and recommend them to anyone who is ready for a better life.

5 out of 5 stars Finding Inner Peace.......2007-08-23

This book can be life changing in giving a person effective tools for dealing with relational conflict. It will be revolutionary for many. I have shared it with many friends.
Inside My Heart: Choosing to Live with Passion and Purpose
Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
  • too preachy
  • Heartfelt
  • Nicely done.
  • Great book for every single and married women
  • Disappointed
Inside My Heart: Choosing to Live with Passion and Purpose
Robin McGraw
Manufacturer: Thomas Nelson
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Hardcover

WomenWomen | Specific Groups | Biographies & Memoirs | Subjects | Books
MotivationalMotivational | Self-Help | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Family Relationships | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Christian Living | Christianity | Religion & Spirituality | Subjects | Books
Women's IssuesWomen's Issues | Christian Living | Christianity | Religion & Spirituality | Subjects | Books
Look Inside Health BooksLook Inside Health Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Parenting BooksLook Inside Parenting Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Religion & Spirituality BooksLook Inside Religion & Spirituality Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
All DealsAll Deals | Blowout Books | Stores | Books
Biographies & MemoirsBiographies & Memoirs | Blowout Books | Stores | Books
Parenting & FamiliesParenting & Families | Blowout Books | Stores | Books
Religion & SpiritualityReligion & Spirituality | Blowout Books | Stores | Books
Similar Items:
  1. Saving Graces: Finding Solace and Strength from Friends and Strangers Saving Graces: Finding Solace and Strength from Friends and Strangers
  2. Self Matters: Creating Your Life from the Inside Out Self Matters: Creating Your Life from the Inside Out
  3. The Confident Woman: Start Today Living Boldly and Without Fear The Confident Woman: Start Today Living Boldly and Without Fear
  4. Family First: Your Step-by-Step Plan for Creating a Phenomenal Family Family First: Your Step-by-Step Plan for Creating a Phenomenal Family
  5. Love Smart: Find the One You Want--Fix the One You Got Love Smart: Find the One You Want--Fix the One You Got

ASIN: 078521836X

Book Description

I believe we were put on this earth to enjoy lives of joy and abundance, and that is what I want for you and for me. It's not my intention to give people advice on how to solve their problems (I leave that to my husband). But I've had my share of struggles over the years, and I know a thing or two about what has worked for me. I have chosen to be an active participant in my life rather than a spectator, and in so doing I have chosen how to be a woman, how to be a wife, and how to be a mother in ways that are uniquely my own. I offer the stories of these choices as evidence of the power of sheer determination, will, and faith in God.

You've seen her on television with her husband, Dr. Phil. But now it's time for a heart-to-heart conversation with Robin McGraw. In Inside My Heart, Robin speaks woman to woman, inspiring you to embrace and celebrate the many roles you play and encouraging you to make deliberate choices that lead to a richer, happier, and more meaningful life.

She shares with you the life-changing moments of her childhood years, dating and marrying Dr. Phil McGraw, raising two sons, and asserting herself as a woman in a man's world to show you that you have the power to make choices in your life. In fact, she's convinced that you must choose to go after the life you want.

With a deep and abiding faith in God, Robin McGraw shares her story so you too can make choices that reflect your own heart's truest priorities and highest goals.

Customer Reviews:

3 out of 5 stars too preachy.......2007-10-18

The book was somewhat interesting because of who she is. I don't think that it was well written. It was too preachy for my taste.

5 out of 5 stars Heartfelt.......2007-10-17

I have read this book more than once and have shared it with a number of my friends.

4 out of 5 stars Nicely done........2007-10-11

I found this book to be very tasteful and inspirational. Most women can relate to Robin at least in some ways and she writes as if you are having a chat with her. I think her underlying theme sends a good positive message. I enjoyed reading it. Thanks Robin for a nice positive book.

5 out of 5 stars Great book for every single and married women.......2007-10-07

Am half through this book, but yet I have found it very engaging in the way she shared her journey in life. I flipped and read briefly in the bookshop and decided to buy it before reading reviews in Amazon. I read negative comments and/or critics about the book structure, repeated messages she kept saying from the first chapter. But I disagreed with all these, this book is NOT a self help book, the topic is about choices she made in her life to become a person she is now. She didn't say it's the best choice for everyone but she showed how she got to that choice. It's not about a journal of her roles as a wife of a fairly famous person, but she shared with the reader many revealing moments in her life, either funny, sad and heartbreaking stories when she discovered a choice she believed and stick to it. I've been away from my parents' house since my twenties and after 10 years living far away from them and my siblings, I felt so close with the way I tried to live my life the best I can the way she did ((well not all the time sometimes). What I meant is to reflect every struggle in life as a lesson and how to react to it. I've been living fairly secured with my parents, afterwards living without pennies as a student, be in the lowest point in spirit and then joined this company where I have lived to the extent I've never ever imagined before but still deep inside I hold to the values I believe and those are values I carried from home till now. I truly believe her saying she hasn't changed much in terms of values from her childhood up to this point where she could write a book. As a single woman, I also found her comments on how she managed the relationships with Philips very helpful to understand and some even renew my own belief to see the thin line between loving other person and loving myself, when to hold it or just let it go. This is a great book for women who determine to keep looking for better choices in lives, in good and bad times. For some who just want to take easy road to feel as victims in life, then there would be a major work to see Robin's points.

1 out of 5 stars Disappointed.......2007-10-04

AS much as I wanted to, I just couldn't get into this book...extremely repetitive....I was unable to continue reading...
Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Needed for every family, especially new parents.
  • Interesting and well written perspective on parenting
  • Good reference book
  • teaching kids about emotions
  • Gottman hits the target...
Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child
John Gottman , and Joan Declaire
Manufacturer: Simon & Schuster
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

Adolescent PsychologyAdolescent Psychology | Psychology & Counseling | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
PsychologyPsychology | Child Psychology | Psychology & Counseling | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Child CareChild Care | Parenting | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
Emotions & FeelingsEmotions & Feelings | Parenting | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
Similar Items:
  1. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert
  2. The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
  3. Parenting From the Inside Out Parenting From the Inside Out
  4. Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ
  5. Emotionally Intelligent Parenting: How to Raise a Self-Disciplined, Responsible, Socially Skilled Child Emotionally Intelligent Parenting: How to Raise a Self-Disciplined, Responsible, Socially Skilled Child

Accessories:
  1. Health o Meter  HDC100-01 "Grow with Me" Teddy Bear Scale for Babies and Toddlers Health o Meter HDC100-01 "Grow with Me" Teddy Bear Scale for Babies and Toddlers
  2. Braun IRT 4020 ThermoScan Ear Thermometer Braun IRT 4020 ThermoScan Ear Thermometer

ASIN: 0684838656

Amazon.com

In Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child, psychology professor John Gottman explores the emotional relationship between parents and children. It's not enough to simply reject an authoritarian model of parenting, Gottman says. A parent needs to be concerned with the quality of emotional interactions. Gottman, author of Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, and coauthor Joan Declaire focus first on the parent (a "know thyself" approach), and provide a series of exercises to assess parenting styles and emotional self-awareness. The authors identify a five-step "emotion coaching" process to help teach children how to recognize and address their feelings, which includes becoming aware of the child's emotions; recognizing that dealing with these emotions is an opportunity for intimacy; listening empathetically; helping the child label emotions; setting limits; and problem-solving. Chapters on divorce, fathering, and age-based differences in emotional development help make Gottman's teachings detailed and useful. --Ericka Lutz

Book Description

Intelligence That Comes from the Heart

Every parent knows the importance of equipping children with the intellectual skills they need to succeed in school and life. But children also need to master their emotions. Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child is a guide to teaching children to understand and regulate their emotional world. And as acclaimed psychologist and researcher John Gottman shows, once they master this important life skill, emotionally intelligent children will enjoy increased self-confidence, greater physical health, better performance in school, and healthier social relationships. Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child will equip parents with a five-step "emotion coaching" process that teaches how to:

* Be aware of a child's emotions

* Recognize emotional expression as an opportunity for intimacy and teaching

* Listen empathetically and validate a child's feelings

* Label emotions in words a child can understand

* Help a child come up with an appropriate way to solve a problem or deal with an upsetting issue or situation

Written for parents of children of all ages, Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child will enrich the bonds between parent and child and contribute immeasurably to the development of a generation of emotionally healthy adults.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Needed for every family, especially new parents........2007-09-26

My sister and brother in law just had a baby and I was reading this for a class... everything that I've learned from this book has been applied to my new nephew and 2 year old niece and it's changed the dynamics of the family by a 10 fold!

4 out of 5 stars Interesting and well written perspective on parenting.......2007-07-17

Dr. Gottman presents an intelligent and informative approach to parenting that teaches children appropriate behavior in a sensitive manner that helps both parents and children explore the underlying reasons for the child's misbehavior. I have found this especially useful when approaching my toddler's tantrums, and have often been able to convert her screams into rational discussion. There is also a chapter that would be particularly helpful for families experiencing marital discord or separation. The book's greatest weakness is that it doesn't discuss differences in children's temperament, which would have a big effect on how well a child might respond to this approach. Overall, though a very interesting and helpful read for parents and child professionals.

5 out of 5 stars Good reference book.......2007-05-15

If you have a child that is a handful this may help.

4 out of 5 stars teaching kids about emotions.......2007-01-03

This book helps parents understand how their personal philosophy about their own emotions influences what and how they teach their children about emotions, such as how to recognize, express, and control anger. The book provides a simple self-test to help parents understand what their philosopy is and how it impacts interactions with their children. For example, some parents do not permit their children to express anger at them while others are accepting of their children being openly angry with them. There are very different long-range implications of these different philosophies and parenting styles. This book helps parents to assess their own philosophy and consider changes in their parenting style.

5 out of 5 stars Gottman hits the target..........2006-11-10

Everything I am reading in this book makes so much logical sense in reflecting on my own experiences as a child and observing others and their interaction with children. I plan on reading it a second time...took notes in the columns for my husband and certainly plan on applying it in raising our son. A must read for ALL parents (especially future parents)!
Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Great book!
  • Worth Every Penny
  • Learn to maintain the right attitude to attract men...
  • A man's view
  • I am a testimony for this book! =)
Why Men Marry Bitches: A Woman's Guide to Winning Her Man's Heart
Sherry Argov
Manufacturer: Simon & Schuster
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

Interpersonal RelationsInterpersonal Relations | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Love & RomanceLove & Romance | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
MarriageMarriage | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GenderGender | By Topic | Psychology & Counseling | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Women's Studies | Nonfiction | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
Look Inside Health BooksLook Inside Health Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Nonfiction BooksLook Inside Nonfiction Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Parenting BooksLook Inside Parenting Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Similar Items:
  1. Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship
  2. Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit? Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit?
  3. What Men Won't Tell You but Women Need to Know What Men Won't Tell You but Women Need to Know
  4. Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE Stop Being the String Along: A Relationship Guide to Being THE ONE
  5. Men Are Like Fish: What Every Woman Needs to Know About Catching a Man Men Are Like Fish: What Every Woman Needs to Know About Catching a Man

ASIN: 074327637X

Book Description

Make him chase you...Until you catch him.

Never shy and always laugh-out-loud funny, Sherry Argov's Why Men Marry Bitches is a sharp-witted manifesto that shows women how to transform a casual relationship into a committed one. With the grittiest of girlfriend-to-girlfriend detail, Argov removes the kid gloves and explains why being extra nice doesn't necessarily mean he'll be more devoted. The guide shares real-life "no holds barred" interviews with men who answer the following in raw detail:

Whether you are single, married, recently separated, or just fed up with your family members telling you to fetch a husband because time is running out, Why Men Marry Bitches is the must-have guide that will show you how to exude confidence, win his heart, and get the love and respect you deserve.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Great book!.......2007-10-06

A must for every woman who is dating and one day plans to get married!! Great insight!!

5 out of 5 stars Worth Every Penny.......2007-09-22

This is a laugh-out funny, insightful book about men...as well as women. Despite the catchy title, this is NOT a book that tells you to play mind games or teaches you how to land a husband. It actually challenges the notion that anyone needs a relationship to feel complete. In addition, it reaffirms what most of us already know---men are turned off by clingy, needy and insecure women---the same qualities that most women find unattractive in men.

The book lists 75 relationship principles as well as practical advice on every day situations, and they do work! The advice on how to handle a relationship that isn't progressing is outstanding. All my guy friends are crying "foul," now that the secret is out.

Bottom line: Get it, read it and enjoy it. You'll get some good laughs out of it, and also several "ah-ha" moments.

5 out of 5 stars Learn to maintain the right attitude to attract men..........2007-09-10

This book is an important book for women who worry allot about getting married. It gives a much-needed push out of the `needy' frame of mind into an independent, in control woman. This not only frees you from obsessing about success with men but it also ends up making you more attractive to men.

One thing I really like about this book is that it is in point form (called principles), with insights into the psychological aspects of men, women and relationships. This is followed by examples which illustrate the points clearly.

To give an idea of the kind of IMPORTANT principles you will learn I have taken a couple of good ones from the book which reveal how different this book is from others on the same topic of `how to get a man'.

Take the following principle as an example, "Men are intrigued by anything they do not completely control". Applying this insight means you maintain your independence including keeping yourself occupied with friends and activities. This will make a man more attracted to you as he has to chase you a bit and you are not too available. This explains the following principle really well, "There's nothing more prized to a man then something he had to wait for, work for, or struggle a little bit to get." It is the challenge that inspires a man. So become a challenge and men will seek you out.

Most important is to SHOW you don't need a man in your life like shown in this principle, "When a man sees you are focused on your own dreams or on elevating yourself, he feels safer marrying you because he doesn't worry about what you'll be trying to take away from him."

Besides these wonderful insights on how to attract the attention of a man there are also insights on how to build your own self-esteem and how to occupy your time without needing a man around. This book helps you from the inside out with tons of tips and advice on how best to date men. This book is definitely worth reading, even if you already have a man in your life.

5 out of 5 stars A man's view.......2007-08-31

Her previous book -Why men love bitches is my favorite and most highly recommended book for women on dealing with men. Keeping us men on our toes. Giving us women that we find challenging, and interesting, and donot take for granted.

Now onto WMMB. Men will test you, just as women test men. These tests serve a purpose. How you respond dictates the nature of the relationship, and whether get respected as the dreamgirl, or treated as a doormat. You teach people how to treat you. Sherry teaches you how to pass these tests.

WMMB entertains, as you might expect from a standup comic. I had to put the book down several times to laugh. Most of her advice is gleaned from many interviews with men, and their experiences with women, and they tell it like it is, what made them decide to marry one person and pass on another. Really, it is our secret playbook. In fact, I got great ideas from this book. So, I recommend this book to men too.

For men, marriage is the biggest financial and emotional decision of our life. If a man makes the wrong decision, and chooses the wrong woman, the financial and emotional consequences are dire.

The right decision, gains him the benefits of an excellent partner and children and opportunities for adventure and bliss, and will inspire and propel him to far greater achievements than would otherwise be possible. Imagine how attractive being independent, emotionally secure, confident, and already fulfilled can make you, and how not being needy or dependent on him for your emotional well being could make you a compelling candidate for marriage.

As you read this book, you will discover the common mistakes women make: the woman on a mission whose biological clock is ticking so loud you can actually hear it, perceiving the man as a vacancy filler, telegraphing commitment interest way too soon, the dreaded talk, the absolutely lethal -where do you see this relationship going question? Sherry's offers solid advice.

What if the guy is not prepared to commit anyway, then you have the dilemma of losing a relationship or continuing with a guy who won't commit. Many guys will string you along indefinitely, because they can.

The most resourceful advice is starting the conversation which will lead to commitment though it only offers one strategy, even if it is brilliant. You should have a few different approaches to pick from.

I disagree on one thing. I don't think it is a sound strategy to avoid talking about marriage entirely, for a long time, so it won't come up on the relationship radar. If you don't bring it up it may never come up. Before you spend years with a guy wouldn't it be wiser to find out in advance what his attitude is? This could bring the denial: You never said anything about a commitment before. Another shortcoming I feel is it does not offer strategies for testing his true attitude on commitment, and decision making.

Here's one idea. Ask a man how he feels about children. If he doesn't want to have them or like them, what does that mean? You have learned much from an indirect question.

Other books I recommend are: Dr Phil's Love Smart:Find the one you want, fix the one you got has excellent advice, on getting the commitment,and the 80/20 rule. The Secret Psychology of how we fall in love by Dr Paul Dobransky has excellent advice on testing a man to see if he is commitment material, also on finding the right kind of man, using the women from Sex and the City as the four female archetypes, the queen, warrior, magician and lover to determine both your personality types. There is also a personality test you can take at KWML.com.

So, I highly recommend this book, and good luck.

If you were to find this review helpful, please click yes.

5 out of 5 stars I am a testimony for this book! =).......2007-08-30

I am currently in a very happy, and successful relationship with my fiance. When I read the book, everything it says reminds me of myself, and the nature of my relationship.
The principles are true! My boyfriend has helped me become a stronger and more independent woman. And he loves me more for the person that I have become.
The Rules(TM): Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
Average customer rating: 3 out of 5 stars
  • Followed the rules! Now blissfully MARRIED!!!
  • Hm...
  • "I did accidently get married to Mr Wrong using this book though I must admit."
  • This Book is right on the money
  • The Rules
The Rules(TM): Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right
Ellen Fein , and Sherrie Schneider
Manufacturer: Grand Central Publishing
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Mass Market Paperback

Love & RomanceLove & Romance | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
MarriageMarriage | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Self-Help | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Similar Items:
  1. Rules II: More Rules to Live and Love By Rules II: More Rules to Live and Love By
  2. Body Language Body Language
  3. Palm Reading: A Little Guide to Life's Secrets (Miniature Edition) Palm Reading: A Little Guide to Life's Secrets (Miniature Edition)
  4. Comedy Writing Secrets, 2nd Edition: The Best-Selling Book on How to Think Funny, Write Funny, Act Funny, And Get Paid For It Comedy Writing Secrets, 2nd Edition: The Best-Selling Book on How to Think Funny, Write Funny, Act Funny, And Get Paid For It
  5. Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl-A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship

ASIN: 0446602744

Amazon.com

An unexpected bestseller, this self-help book for women who want to hook a man seems to have struck a chord with desperate American women. Fein and Schneider, whose main credentials seem to be that they are married, lay out the rules to be followed for successfully snagging a dream hunk. And these rules are hard as cast-iron--Rule Five: Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls. The idea is to return to pre-feminist mind games, exploiting the male hunting urge by playing hard to get. The result seems unliberating--Rule Seventeen: Let Him Take the Lead--but it seems to be capturing female minds. Rules Girls are eyeing the phone with steely resolve, and Rules seminars are springing up nationwide. Curious bachelors have been observed studying The Rules, some frowning, others with the supercilious smile of the hunter.

Book Description

An unexpected bestseller, this self-help book for women who want to hook a man seems to have struck a chord with desperate American women. Fein and Schneider, whose main credentials seem to be that they are married, lay out the rules to be followed for successfully snagging a dream hunk. And these rules are hard as cast-iron--Rule Five: Don't Call Him and Rarely Return His Calls. The idea is to return to pre-feminist mind games, exploiting the male hunting urge by playing hard to get. The result seems unliberating--Rule Seventeen: Let Him Take the Lead--but it seems to be capturing female minds. Rules Girls are eyeing the phone with steely resolve, and Rules seminars are springing up nationwide. Curious bachelors have been observed studying The Rules, some frowning, others with the supercilious smile of the hunter.

Download Description

You are a creature unlike any other (Rule #1)--that's why you need . . . The Rules. A simple set of dos and don'ts, The Rules will lead you to where you want to be: in a healthy, committed relationship. Unlike today's haphazard dating customs, The Rules recognizes certain facts of life. That men know what they want. That a man is either attracted to you--or not! That men want a challenge, not an instant or easy victory. When you follow these commonsense guidelines, you treat yourself with respect and dignity--and demand that men do likewise. Although they sound old-fashioned ("Don't see him more than once or twice a week"), they encourage you to lead a full, satisfying, busy life--outside of romance. Although they seem tough ("Don't talk to a man first"), they will teach you how to accept occasional defeat and move on. And although they require discipline ("No more than casual kissing on the first date"), they will bring out the best in you and in the men you date. The goal? Marriage, in the shortest time possible, to a man you love, who loves you even more than you love him.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Followed the rules! Now blissfully MARRIED!!!.......2007-10-10

The Rules is a great book. As a feminist, I want to say that this book works for women who are tired of doing all the work. As a wife, my husband is glad that I followed the rules because he told me that he respected me more than any woman he dated before me.

The men who comment here who are against 'games' are men that we women should avoid! Run fast because this 'man' wants to be lazy, unaccountable, boring and most importantly not thoughtful.

Us women strategize about our education, our careers, and how we take care of our bodies...and that is responsible, but somehow having some guidelines and goals for our romantic lives is considered trite by many of the reviewers. Well let them bumble in the dark. I read The Rules and I worked them and they worked for me!

1 out of 5 stars Hm..........2007-09-18

The most interesting thing about this book is that Ellen Fein DIVORCED after the publication of this book (in 2001, I believe). Shouldn't this be a gigantic red flag for anyone considering buying this trash?

I mean, aside from the fact that neither of them are qualified counselors, nor do they have any sort of professional background.

Of course, I may have a personal hatred for this book, seeing as my own thrice-divorced mother decided that this was an appropriate gift for me... when I was only 12.

2 out of 5 stars "I did accidently get married to Mr Wrong using this book though I must admit.".......2007-09-17

As a man I suggest: be careful.

"Rules" behavior is "very desirable girl" behavior systematized; it's personal branding (i.e., somehwat false) to weed out (mostly) useless players and genuinely low-status males to a lesser extent (girls want to hook the highest-possible status male with "honest," long-term intent; or alternately entrance a reliable shlub and probably cheat on him). "Rules" behavior comes naturally for high-status girls because their lives are filled with people and multiple potential suitors every day, usually for a reason: because they're hot and charming, in that order. Now by the Rules, the man is supposed to intuit and codify the woman's high social status, therefore mentally exalting her as "virgin" rather than "whore," and therefore "a serious mate," which is the only man a decent girl wants, theoretically, making the Rules seem good for women out for long-term mates.

All the times I've been in love have been no-sex situations, I'm sorry to report. This mimics Pleistocine times when two people naturally grow into an item over at least a few sexless years, and everyone occupies the same tribal ground on a daily basis; anybody's status is already basically known by everyone: what they do, how useful and hot they are, and what the cultural ideals exalt. Everybody's status is a little variable, but common knowledge and regularly discussed (indeed, probably the most interesting thing to discuss, especially for women ((hence gossip mags, which fill the need with celebrity simulacrums))).

There's the rub: in Pleistocine times, as a "Rules"-ish girl, you could jabber away with your girlfriends by the girl-fire, maddeningly flirt with other males, not talk to the man for several days, driving him crazy, wait for his approach, and this would come naturally, and you'd very organically "hook" the male, who you've probably known for years, and hey, he's developed genuine love for you, however temporary. In our times, "Rules" behavior wants to convey the image of high status, which would be more organically transmitted in previous epochs. You're trying to artificially engineer, probably over a smaller space of time, how marriage-love happens. And it can work.

But as a man in this society, I don't know you, you don't know me (everybody agrees it's really, really awkward at first), which is the exact opposite of the Pleistocine. I meet you at a bar, I have a tenuous connection to you; you bail on a phone call, I still don't know you. I'm trying to figure you out, of course, so you can exploit this mystique, but your existence is barely definite to me. Your evasion might make me interested, but if I know other sexy girls who are much more definite in my mind, why bother? You potentially exclude the most happening men, who you'd be most interested in marrying, provided they weren't chronic philanderers, and their having an active social life where you're not initially important does not necessarily make them philanderers. Telegraphing your status by the Rules doesn't mean anything if nobody's listening. Men will "listen" to your protracted and indirect conveyance of status to the extent you're uncommonly attractive and charming. If you're a little unattractive, your rouse will possibly hook a desperate shlub, only, and you'll be like the guy who only dated fat girls off of Craig's List: doomed to mediocrity by the dating conditions you observe.
It's not wrong to call this strategy fundamentally just "bluffing;" in a bluff, you imagine the smoothest operator (who you want) not falling for it.

Maybe some mystery propels me at you: but likely how propelled I am is based on how attracted I am to you, how "cool" you seem on what little I know of you, and that requires substantial, if fragmentary, prior knowledge. A very gregarious, great man might barely have an IMPRESSION of who you are, even if he goes on a couple dates with you. Instead he'll find somebody who has already MADE AN IMPRESSION, due to how our society is set-up right now. Not talking, not making dates, ending phone-calls; that's only effective to the degree you've already solidified your hotness/high social status/definiteness as a reliable personality who exists in the man's mind, and "nerd"-y imagination is the best engine to create this image. So the Rules can function like nerd-bait; probably not what you want.

There's your second rub: male pick-up artists make more sense, for men, since women take 80% of status from behavioral and cognitive cues to place them in a big social picture. Men take the majority of your status-idea from your image, how hot you are. This might be an evolutionary freak. I've known conventionally "beautiful" women whose personalities utterly kill my attraction, it's rare but it happens...OVER SEVERAL MONTHS. Men's insanely easy-to-predict superficiality may be based on the fact we don't know any of you yet, but hey, our innate superficiality is five times yours, so we get obsessed with it. Still, in the long-term, ESPECIALLY with marriage, your personality DOES matter, and I don't mean lame evasion-techniques to create temporary mystique and sexual fixation. That only works on the suckers, the losers.

All men would more or less love 100 sexually-attractive girlfriends at once, so if you're too much too fast and too easy, it's easy to imagine a man codifying you as an ideal slut (your behavior indicates in itself other females could be sexual doormats). That's something to keep in mind, but being overly evasive and non-sexual, if you're not exceptionally attractive, is more dangerous for you in our times. Obviously, if your whole package is wonderful, even if you're a little "easy," you gain hand by suggesting you'll leave him. Implementing the Rules in the first months sets up a stupid game where the question is how important you are to him, and the answer is: 1)how hot you are, 2)how willing he is to jump through hoops based on nothing but hot you are (answer: as willing as he is a worthless nerd).

Avoidance when the man barely knows you traffics in partial insanity, since your social coolness is largely irrelevant to men (he knows how hot you are, based on how hot you are, and can accurately imagine how easily you can get laid). In fact, your attachment to other men ("I'm already going out on Saturday with some friends") means virtually nothing to him, because he knows other men desire you, if you're desireable. Overall such smokescreens probably have a negligable effect; when I think of other men going out with girls I've been really into, it creates jealousy (moreso if I know the male), but if I don't know the male, it induces a desire, after a while, to let the girl go. After all I can't compete with a man I can barely imagine. On the other hand, if a man is going out on Saturday, a woman's knowledge that he has other females desiring him is probably more important by a factor of three at least.

So contemporary human sexuality is virtually FUBAR, due to the evolutionarily unprecedented need for a woman to become a real person with high status, in the man's eyes, and also not be so available. A woman who wants a long-term mate should find a balance between creating familiarity and evasiveness. I guess that's what most girls try to do naturally.

Acting like a princess could systematically alienate the really great men. The Rules are probably best for girls who want to marry dorks and cheat on them.





5 out of 5 stars This Book is right on the money.......2007-08-17

I honestly cannot fathom why there is such an outcry about this book. Can someone please explain to me why it's such a terrible thing for a woman to hold a man to high standards.

It was easy to do the rules when I was younger. Men drove to my house (I lived with my parents while I was in college) and I had a curfew. I grew up in a small town so if a man was a player or a bad person, we all knew about him. The village of women in a small town usually stick together.

If you now live in a big metropolis like I do, the men with bad intentions can easily hide in the crowds.

I'm not saying all women act with integrity but neither do all men.

Everytime I do the rules, I attract a man who adores me. Pure and simple.

Let's examine why some of these rules work.

Only returning calls. Women like to talk on the phone for hours, men don't. When you call a man you run the risk of him being in the middle of the game or busy with a hobby. When a man calls you, it's because you're on his mind and he has something to say.

Not meeting a man halfway. Trust me, if a man wants to see a game, a fight, a concert, etc...he will drive a 100 miles if he has to.

Not talking to men first. If a man is interested he will find a way to contact you. There are shy men granted, but if a man is really interested, he'll make it happen.

The man HAS to set the tone of the relationship. You want a man who is delighted to take you down the aisle of marriage, not a man you have to "force" or give an ultimatum to.

You CAN do the rules and be yourself but you have to use some sense of decorum when you first meet someone. You can't let it all hang out. Would you do that on a job interview? I think not.

The Rules help women who are too "nice". Being "nice" doesn't get you married, doing the Rules do.

I'm now single and dating again after breaking off a long term relationship that was not going to end up in marriage. I could have stayed and dated him for the next 20 years but I want marriage. He didn't, I do and we're now broke up, pure and simple. When I meet men now I don't even mention the relationship. If they ask I simply say he went one way and I went the other way and I'd rather not bore you with stories of an ex and I leave it that.

Now the Rules doesn't mean you can look like a slob. I eat right, I workout like a fiend, I have long hair and a healthy body. That's what men like period. I don't dress for women, I dress for men.

I am doing the rules again and ladies it works. It doesn't matter how old you are, they work. I'm now living life to the fullest, I go places where there are single eligible men, I'm really happy and over the bitterness of the breakup and I'm ready to meet my future sweetheart.

It's only a matter of time before he finds me and I'll be doing the Rules to the "T".



5 out of 5 stars The Rules.......2007-08-13

Many thanks for the prompt service. The book arrived in very good condition in New Zealand.
Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More
Average customer rating: 4 out of 5 stars
  • Great Book
  • In Memory of Morrnah
  • No content about Ho'o Ponopono, just Advertisements
  • Finally
  • Ho'oponopono- A New Way of Living
Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More
Joe Vitale , and Ihaleakala Hew, Ph.D Len
Manufacturer: Wiley
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Hardcover

GeneralGeneral | Business & Investing | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Investing | Business & Investing | Subjects | Books
MotivationalMotivational | Management & Leadership | Business & Investing | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Personal Finance | Business & Investing | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Self-Help | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Personal TransformationPersonal Transformation | Self-Help | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Psychology & Counseling | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
HypnosisHypnosis | Stress | Personal Health | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Family HealthFamily Health | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
VedicVedic | Astrology | New Age | Religion & Spirituality | Subjects | Books
Look Inside Health BooksLook Inside Health Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Parenting BooksLook Inside Parenting Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Look Inside Religion & Spirituality BooksLook Inside Religion & Spirituality Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Similar Items:
  1. Hypnotic Writing: How to Seduce and Persuade Customers with Only Your Words Hypnotic Writing: How to Seduce and Persuade Customers with Only Your Words
  2. The Attractor Factor: 5 Easy Steps for Creating Wealth (or Anything Else) from the Inside Out The Attractor Factor: 5 Easy Steps for Creating Wealth (or Anything Else) from the Inside Out
  3. Your Portable Empire: How to Make Money Anywhere While Doing What You Love Your Portable Empire: How to Make Money Anywhere While Doing What You Love
  4. The Astonishing Power of Emotions The Astonishing Power of Emotions
  5. The Divine Matrix: Bridging Time, Space, Miracles, and Belief The Divine Matrix: Bridging Time, Space, Miracles, and Belief

ASIN: 0470101474

Book Description

Praise For Zero Limits

"This riveting book can awaken humanity. It reveals the simple power of four phrases to transform your life. It's all based in love by an author spreading love. You should get ten copies of it——one for you and nine to give away. It's that good."
—— Debbie Ford, New York Times bestselling author of The Dark Side of the Light Chasers

"I love this book! I feel it will be the definitive personal-change/self-help book for at least a generation and viewed as a watershed event by historians. There is real potential for this book to start a movement that will end war, poverty, and the environmental devastation of our beloved planet."
—— Marc Gitterle, MD, www.CardioSecret.com

"This book is like a stick of dynamite, and the moment you start reading, the fuse is lit.

It blows away all the complex and confusing success paradigms of the past and reveals a refreshing and clear path to transform your life with just one simple step. As you explore Zero Limits with Vitale, be prepared for a journey that is both challenging and inspiring beyond anything you've imagined."
—— Craig Perrine, www.MaverickMarketer.com

"There are more than 6 billion different manifestations of human existence on the planet?and only one of us here. In Zero Limits, Vitale has captured the truth that all great spiritual, scientific, and psychological principles teach at the most fundamental level. Boil it all down to the basics and the keys are quite simple—— the answer to all life's challenges is profound love and gratitude. Read this book; it's a reminder of the truth and ability you already possess."
—— James Arthur Ray, philosopher and bestselling author of Practical Spirituality and The Science of Success

"Wow! This is the best and most important book Vitale has ever written!"
—— Cindy Cashman, www.FirstSpaceWedding.com

"I couldn't put it down. This book elegantly sketches what I've learned and learned about in twenty-one years of personal study, and then it takes it to the next level. If you're looking for true peace along with 'the good stuff,' then this book is for you."
—— David Garfinkel, author of Advertising Headlines That Make You Rich

"Zero Limits is Vitale's adventure into the most mind-altering reading experience of your life."
—— Joseph Sugarman, President, BluBlocker Sunglasses, Inc.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Great Book.......2007-10-20

I have been working with these ideas for some time and Joe help me to reinforce and understand the principles with his own experiences.
This book is for people who have taken responsibility of their lives!
Gabriele Reiki Master/Reconnective Healer

1 out of 5 stars In Memory of Morrnah.......2007-10-19

Aloha,
For about 22 years I am a practitioner of the updated Ho'oponopono-process from Morrnah Simeona, who brings balance and joy in my daily life. So I feel free, to comment this book called Zero Limits.

I do not care that it is a promotion book for activities of the authors. But I care for the legacy of Morrnah. In that view the book does not reflect her genuine teachings, it is mixed up with other ideas, therefore creating a different system - but is referring to Morrnah.

Doing her Ho'oponopono is primarily not what is promised on the cover. Wealth can be a comfortable side-effect. The process is for releasing negative energies out of your mind and the mind of others involved at a given problem. The result is a blessing from the Divine Creator for all involved parties - but which kind is His choice. And Yes, the Way of Morrnah leads step by step to Peace and FREEDOM for you and your family and relatives, for your neighbors and your circle of acquaintances. May be even the landscape around you will have less traffic, more flowers and so on. You and those you are associated with will be on the track of evolution again. But one thing will not happen: It will not lead to Zero. The Divine is not Zero, the Divine is LIFE itself.

To say e.g. to the Unihipili "I love you, I am sorry, please forgive me, thank you" are not key phrases of the Ho'oponopono - even they are written on many pages of the book. They work for sure, as you profit from the huge thought forms of LOVE, FORGIVENESS or THANKS. Unihipili - your subconsciousness - is then in a well-feeling vibration, pretending your problems are erased. But not so. Your mind is simply manipulated. These words are a kind of murmuring a mantra, of singing a catchy record. With temporarily effect. Morrnah never taught this sequence. Her way was writing down the problems ... and doing the Ho'oponopono-process. There the words of Love, Forgiveness and so on are used in the context of the whole process - the deciding difference, beside the final erasing.

The proposal that the Divine is a Zero state (page 31) is neither the ancient way of Ho'oponopono nor the modern way of Morrnah. It seems to be the new way of Dr. Stanley Hew Len, based on a misunderstanding of the Void. Void exists as an emptiness of any matter, as an Ultraconsciousness beyond all consciousness as Man can be aware of - but it is anything else than Zero. It is - as Morrnah would say - the undefinable Pure. When doing her Ho'oponopono, Divinity will simply cleanse your Unihipili from all (emotional) rubbish what is not you, but it will let untouched this part of your Self-Identity, your ability of having feelings.

It is no surprise for me that the two authors attracted each other: One calls himself "Mr.Fire", the other one is otherwise known as "Haleakala" (House of the Sun). Since some years he changed to "Ihaleakala" (Divine House of the Sun). He is not a master teacher. A master teacher is not working with material labels, magic business cards and the like (page119). They surely will bring results, but not cleansing. They will become binding fetishes, created out of fear. If s.o. feels free of doing a Mahiki, these labels will be worthless within the twinkle of an eye - all of them.

"I've been told to kill the Divine to be home" (page 172). Did I hear the falling down of a mask from Stan? Will all come out as a Judas-story? In an interview in April 1985 (The Movement Newspaper, L.A., CA), Morrnah said: "By loving ourselves, we are loving the Divine". Consequently if killing the Divine, we kill ourselves. This message helps nobody. Morrnah opened the door for a new partnership between Divinity and Man, Stan seems intending to close this door.

Stan claimed having healed criminals in the Hawaii State Hospital only by looking through the files while murmuring the above sequence "I love you, etc." (page 41). THAT WAS NOT SO. He did the Way of Morrnah: Ho'oponopono-processes, the long form. And yes, for more than three years it was him who started humbly the process of expressing repentance to the criminals and their doctors, asking them for forgiveness, forgiving them and asking Divinity for healing all who are involved. Divinity accepted this altruistic plea and transformed step by step all negative memories and karmic bondages inside him AND inside the others into Light - as it was no accident, that Stan worked in this special hospital from 1983-1987. He was not responsable for these folks, he was the cause.

It might be attractive to get an honorable name from a kind of Guru (page 57/58), but it will not only lead to a longlasting bondage, it will also split your personality. Everybody's choice.

Every moment there are new problems under the sky as you are creating karma, which means: What you do to others (by living up your free will), you will experience on yourself. If you create problems, you will experience problems. You are the cause. Surely from that moment on you KNOW that you are the creator of your life, you are responsable for your future thoughts, words and deeds. You are responsable for the welfare of your Unihipili. But Morrnah never said as written in the book, that you are "100% responsable" of what you did in the past (page 41), because this is both binding and not true. Often others, unknown to you, are also involved. Furthermore it is giving you a feeling of guilt in the neighborhood of the original sin.

If a dog is barking to you, let it bark. It is its way to talk with you. It is its way of feeling LIFE. If it disturbs you, do not stop it by having magic ideas in your mind as proposed in the book (page 153). Again Morrnah would say just cleanse, that and why you are not comfortable with its barking.

You should not try to cleanse the 50 millions, who voted in your mind for the "wrong" president, as proposed in the book (page 168). May be you take over their Karma. Ask for cleansing why you are angry about their vote; Divinity will decide - that is it, what Morrnah would tell you. You are the cause if you are angry.

O ka Maluhia no me oe - Peace be with you, the Peace of I. AND IT IS DONE.

1 out of 5 stars No content about Ho'o Ponopono, just Advertisements.......2007-10-18

There is no information about real Ho'o Ponopono in this book. There is an advertisement telling you to pay for a seminar to learn what Joe Vitale thinks is Ho'o Ponopono. The sales pitch contains hints which show this is not real Ho'o Ponopono. Joe Vitale also publishes in this book the claim that he is "the Jesus of Business" which all Christians will find disgusting and offensive.

5 out of 5 stars Finally.......2007-10-18

I have been reading self help books for years and finding this book has been a true magical gift. I always knew it had to be SIMPLE!

5 out of 5 stars Ho'oponopono- A New Way of Living.......2007-10-17

I call this " a new way of Living", and what I mean by that is it is a way to heal myself , and all those I perceive as needing healing, which is really me!! What a concept!! At times I really get it, and other times it is a little harder. Surely "that person over there" has nothing to do with me. Even so, it is an awesome practice, and one I will continue to do.
Thanks, Joe and Dr.Len.
Ramona Font
Shepherding a Child's Heart
Average customer rating: 3 out of 5 stars
  • May favorite parenting book!
  • Biblical and Necessary
  • Child Abuse
  • The Best Parenting Book I've Read
  • Great book - beware any bad publicity
Shepherding a Child's Heart
Tedd Tripp
Manufacturer: Shepherd Press
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

GeneralGeneral | Parenting | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
Look Inside Parenting BooksLook Inside Parenting Books | Trip | Specialty Stores | Books
Similar Items:
  1. Shepherding a Child's Heart: Parent's Handbook Shepherding a Child's Heart: Parent's Handbook
  2. Don't Make Me Count to Three: a Mom's Look at Heart-Oriented Discipline Don't Make Me Count to Three: a Mom's Look at Heart-Oriented Discipline
  3. Teach Them Diligently: How To Use The Scriptures In Child Training Teach Them Diligently: How To Use The Scriptures In Child Training
  4. The Heart of Anger The Heart of Anger
  5. Wise Words For Moms Wise Words For Moms

Accessories:
  1. Health o Meter  HDC100-01 "Grow with Me" Teddy Bear Scale for Babies and Toddlers Health o Meter HDC100-01 "Grow with Me" Teddy Bear Scale for Babies and Toddlers
  2. Braun IRT 4020 ThermoScan Ear Thermometer Braun IRT 4020 ThermoScan Ear Thermometer

ASIN: 0966378601

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars May favorite parenting book!.......2007-10-19

This is a must for parents!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Totally changed my thinking. Gave me total peace in disciplining. Now I can calmly and confidently parent with a perfect goal everytime. I wish every parent was required to read this book! I give it as gifts to new parents all the time.

5 out of 5 stars Biblical and Necessary.......2007-10-16

I find Tedd Tripp's book very eye opening for a pastor who is often concerned about the way his kids "behave". Tripp reminded me that the heart of the child is the priority. God has given us instructions in His Word and even though they may be countercultural today, they are for our good (and our children's). We are currently going through this series in our church and it has helped us consider the motives for our parenting and discipline. I think it is one of the most practical and beneficial books I have ever read on parenting and I highly recommend it. Yes, it is radical for our day and time but just read the Sermon on the Mount and see how countercultural it is for our day and time.

1 out of 5 stars Child Abuse.......2007-09-14

This book gives Christians everywhere a bad name. This is child torture, plain and simple. This man tells parents to strike babies as young as eight months old for trivial infractions such as squirming during a diaper change. He also advises parents to spank babies who make their bodies go stiff. Parents with even half a brain know these behaviors are normal growth and development. Babies can not communicate their needs through words so they use other methods. Mr. Tripp has an appalling lack of knowledge about normal growth and development of children.

For older children, he advocates hitting them each time they don't automatically jump to a command. He also says that if the child resists or objects, keep hitting until the child 'becomes sweet'. Mr. Tripp is pure evil. I believe he would do better with a mechanically operated robot. He should not be allowed near any living creature that is unable to defend his/herself.

This book should be BANNED. I am amazed Amazon sells something this abusive. It deserves NO stars.

5 out of 5 stars The Best Parenting Book I've Read.......2007-09-08

I'm surprised to see the average review for this book was only 3 stars. I thought it was the very best book I've read on parenting. I have a 4-year-old and a 2-year-old and my husband and I are like most parents: we love our kids, but often find ourselves at wit's end. I felt that the author went right to the heart of the issue of Christian parenting, instead of giving lists of do's and don't's. Our whole goal is to raise our kids to love God, but we're "pioneer parents" in the sense that we weren't brought up this way ourselves. I loved the whole premise of dealing with kids' heart issues instead of just their behavior, and of letting them see their need for the gospel from the get-go. I've grieved over seeing so many kids brought up in church turn from the Lord, grieved for their parents who stand there wondering what they've done wrong. Ultimately, our kids will make their own decisions, but I felt that this book gave us a great plan for what we can do to help them along the way.

5 out of 5 stars Great book - beware any bad publicity.......2007-09-05

This book is AWESOME. But beware, I found a website with some highly frustrated individual telling people to go on Amazon.com and write negative things because it advocates biblical discipline (e.g. spanking). The comments on this frustrated individual's website are completely out of context and they clearly do not understand the author's heart in wanting to help parents shepherd their children and raise up young men and women who are dependent upon God. The first chapter of the book focuses on this principal: It's not about changing the behavior of the child, but understanding their heart and helping them to understand that the nature of humankind's heart is to go away from God. Therefore, Christ would have us move our hearts towards him. God puts parents in the lives of children to help them.

Here is a direct quote from the crazy person's website: "Please write a review of this nasty, evil book on Amazon!! Click on this link and scroll down to "write a review":"

Guys, this is such a good book. It will help you to bond with your children and give godly discipline. I wonder how many of the negative reviews have been sent here by Mr. Crazy's website.


Best,


K
Every Heart Restored: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's Sexual Sin (The Every Man Series)
Average customer rating: 3.5 out of 5 stars
  • Deceptive Title
  • Great book
  • WHAT A GREAT BOOK!
  • You are NOT alone!
  • Realistic and helpful steps to restoration
Every Heart Restored: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of a Husband's Sexual Sin (The Every Man Series)
Stephen Arterburn , Fred Stoeker , and Mike Yorkey
Manufacturer: WaterBrook Press
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

SexualSexual | Recovery | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
MarriageMarriage | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Christian Living | Christianity | Religion & Spirituality | Subjects | Books
MarriageMarriage | Relationships | Christian Living | Christianity | Religion & Spirituality | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
Similar Items:
  1. Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time (The Every Man Series) Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time (The Every Man Series)
  2. Every Heart Restored Workbook: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of Every Man's Battle (The Every Man Series) Every Heart Restored Workbook: A Wife's Guide to Healing in the Wake of Every Man's Battle (The Every Man Series)
  3. Every Man's Battle Workbook: The Path to Sexual Integrity Starts Here (The Every Man Series) Every Man's Battle Workbook: The Path to Sexual Integrity Starts Here (The Every Man Series)
  4. Every Man's Marriage: An Every Man's Guide to Winning the Heart of a Woman (previously released as Every Woman's Desire) Every Man's Marriage: An Every Man's Guide to Winning the Heart of a Woman (previously released as Every Woman's Desire)
  5. Living with Your Husbands Secret Wars Living with Your Husbands Secret Wars

ASIN: 157856784X
Release Date: 2004-10-19

Book Description

Wholeness and Healing for Women Caught in the Crossfire.

As the wife of a man who is addicted to lust, pornography, or masturbation, you are not alone. Millions of men can’t get through the day or the week without clicking on to their favorite Internet porn sites, thumbing through adult magazines, or watching sensual videos–and millions of wives suffer as a result.

Over the past decade, nearly 400,000 men have found inspiration and hope in Every Man’s Battle, the best-selling men’s guide to victory over sexual sin. Now, here at last is the book for every woman who has become a casualty in the fight for sexual purity. Every Heart Restored offers godly guidance and wisdom for a woman facing such personal betrayal.

“WHAT DOES GOD EXPECT FROM ME?”

“HOW CAN I TRUST AGAIN?”

“IS IT POSSIBLE TO OVERCOME PAIN AND UNFORGIVENESS?”

“CAN MY MARRIAGE BE REBUILT?”

“WHAT IF I JUST WANT OUT?”

Filled with stories from wives and husbands at every stage in the struggle for sexual purity, Every Heart Restored addresses the questions and real-life issues that matter to you most. Whether you are facing the startling new revelation of your husband’s sin, dealing with a long-term problem, or cleaning out an old wound, Every Heart Restored will meet you where you are and guide you to healing greater than you imagine possible.

Also available: Every Heart Restored Workbook

Customer Reviews:

4 out of 5 stars Deceptive Title.......2007-07-14

If you've just been hit with the revelation of your husband's "secret life", this book may not help. The title is deceptive because it implies that you will be healed after reading it.(Healing is God's job!) I was frustrated with the first few chapters, because it dealt with man's sexuality rather than the wife's torment. My raw agony was nowhere to be found within the pages of this book. However, this book was still useful. Overall, the book was all right.

There were nuggets of practical advice and hope. I liked the way views from both wives and husbands were presented. The most important thing I learned was that it is possible for a husband to love his wife and still sin against her. I don't understand it or like it, but I believe it and this book does a good job of introducing that concept. I also learned a lot about the importance of a Christian wife's role of encouraging her husband spiritually. I liked Fred's description about how Brenda influenced him by lovingly refusing to accept anything less than righteousness from him. I also liked Brenda's attitude that her destiny is forever entwined with Fred's and that when one sins it pollutes the stream for both of them.

If you are in deep pain right now, understand that healing will take lots of time and lots of God. This book won't fix you or your marriage, but it can give you some insight and encouragement. For biblical healing, I strongly recommend "Lord Heal My Hurts" by Kay Arthur.

5 out of 5 stars Great book.......2007-06-29

I'm half-way through it. So far, it is a really great book w/ super insight. I highly recommend it. Best description for this book would be "lifechanging".

5 out of 5 stars WHAT A GREAT BOOK! .......2007-02-23

This is an outstanding book. This addresses a very real problem and does it in terms we can all understand. It is an easy read and includes enough actual stories from actual people to cross the bounds of "it could never happen to us" Thanks Fred and Brenda!

4 out of 5 stars You are NOT alone!.......2006-09-02

This book has helped me realize that I am not alone and that it is completely NORMAL to have these types of feelings.
Women share their personal stories and feelings in this book. Wisdom is handed out to help you make your own decisions.
One word of caution...personally, it kind of fueled my fire in a way...not sure how to describe it, but it almost gave me more bullets against my husband.
It's not a feel good read by any means, but it is a should read.

5 out of 5 stars Realistic and helpful steps to restoration.......2006-08-27

Understanding why your spouse was stupid enough to become entangled in the porno web is one thing; forgiving him and restoring your relationship is quite another. This book lays it all bare and gives practical counsel that, if followed, will help a woman wanting to accomplish that end.

Some reviewers of this book expressed disappointment with the focus on pornography and masterbation, but I bought it anyway. Adultery begins in the mind. With easy access to internet pornography, thoughts are turned into images. Sexual obsessions have mental, spiritual, and emotional ramifications. Each has to be acknowledged and addressed. This means going back to where it begins. Cut off a weed at its roots and it will die. This is a good book for women who are truly ready to forgive.
Secrets of an Irresistible Woman: Smart Rules for Capturing His Heart
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • Inspiring, funny, appropriate and real
  • practical, down to earth advice
  • Secrets of an Irresistible Woman: Smart Rules for Capturing His Heart
  • A NEW WOMAN
  • a must read for all women
Secrets of an Irresistible Woman: Smart Rules for Capturing His Heart
Michelle McKinney Hammond
Manufacturer: Harvest House Publishers
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

Interpersonal RelationsInterpersonal Relations | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Love & RomanceLove & Romance | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Mate SeekingMate Seeking | Relationships | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
SexSex | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books | General | Psychology | Sex & Religion | Sex Instruction
GeneralGeneral | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Marriage & FamilyMarriage & Family | Sociology | Social Sciences | Nonfiction | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Parenting & Families | Subjects | Books
Similar Items:
  1. 101 Ways to Get and Keep His Attention 101 Ways to Get and Keep His Attention
  2. The Unspoken Rules of Love: What Women Don't Know and Men Don't Tell You (Hammond, Michelle Mckinney) The Unspoken Rules of Love: What Women Don't Know and Men Don't Tell You (Hammond, Michelle Mckinney)
  3. In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man: The One God Approves and a Woman Wants In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man: The One God Approves and a Woman Wants
  4. What to Do Until Love Finds You: The Bestselling Guide to Preparing Yourself for Your Perfect Mate (Hammond, Michelle Mckinney) What to Do Until Love Finds You: The Bestselling Guide to Preparing Yourself for Your Perfect Mate (Hammond, Michelle Mckinney)
  5. How to Be Blessed and Highly Favored How to Be Blessed and Highly Favored

ASIN: 1565078438

Book Description

Women will discover the rules and scriptural principles about love that ensure solid, godly relationships. Secrets offers practical advice, inspiring prayers, and study questions to help women understand and recognize real love.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars Inspiring, funny, appropriate and real.......2007-06-16

I stumbled upon this book and am so glad I did.

The author has an obvious love and passion for Jesus and a desire to tell others about how to be a godly and virtuous woman. Forget "The Rules" - Read and apply the principals outlined in the book and fall in love with the Savior. In a culture that forces one to immediate gratification, this book will inspire and motivate you to pray for your husband to FIND you ("He who finds a wife finds a good thing") while you are pursuing God's plan for your life. In addition to inspiring single women, this book also encourages married women and provides practical advice to becoming an irresistable wife.

The book is easy to read, humorous, points to Jesus, scripturally based and applicable for today. I like the use of scriptural stories which illustrate not only how to be a godly and faith inspired woman, but how the scriptures are truely timeless and relevant. She also starts each chapter with a prayer - beautiful, powerful and authentic prayer - preparing the heart of the reader to greater faith.

5 out of 5 stars practical, down to earth advice.......2007-05-15

I found this to be a very down to earth book with practical advice. I have begun applying some of Michelle's principles and am finding that they really do work. Recently divorced after 28 years of marriage, I was a little unsure of how to approach dating again. I am now in a new relationship. This handy reference has helped my self assurance and I am using my power much more effectively than I ever would have otherwise. Thanks, Michelle!

5 out of 5 stars Secrets of an Irresistible Woman: Smart Rules for Capturing His Heart.......2007-02-17

I think this book is a must have for all single and seeking women. It certainly changed my outlook, and I have since stopped seeking and resolved that Mr. Right will find me.

5 out of 5 stars A NEW WOMAN.......2007-01-05

WOW! This book was so awesome...again, the title would make you think you would become so intriguing and irresistible you'd snag your next mate. NOT SO!
This book helped you to wash away the residue of old hurts and wrong mindsets. To have a heart for the Lord! SO WONDERFUL!
I bought 8 copies of this book for friends and family. It was so life changing I had to share this wealth of knowledge.

5 out of 5 stars a must read for all women.......2006-10-12

I wish that I could have read this book when I was single, because I would have avoided a lot of heartache. This book helped me even as a married woman to make my relationship better. This is the best book I have ever read about relationships. This is her best!
The Anti-Inflammation Diet and Recipe Book: Protect Yourself and Your Family from Heart Disease, Arthritis, Diabetes, Allergies - and More
Average customer rating: 5 out of 5 stars
  • An excellent, health-promoting guide
  • Buy this book!
  • A Wonderful Resource
  • My patients LOVE this Book!
  • Great Resource!!
The Anti-Inflammation Diet and Recipe Book: Protect Yourself and Your Family from Heart Disease, Arthritis, Diabetes, Allergies - and More
Jessica K. Black
Manufacturer: Hunter House
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

HealthyHealthy | Special Diet | Cooking, Food & Wine | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Diets | Diets & Weight Loss | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Weight LossWeight Loss | Diets | Diets & Weight Loss | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
DiabetesDiabetes | Special Conditions | Diets & Weight Loss | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Nutrition | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
GeneralGeneral | Health, Mind & Body | Subjects | Books
Similar Items:
  1. The Inflammation-Free Diet Plan The Inflammation-Free Diet Plan
  2. The Inflammation Syndrome: The Complete Nutritional Program to Prevent and Reverse Heart Disease, Arthritis, Diabetes, Allergies, and Asthma The Inflammation Syndrome: The Complete Nutritional Program to Prevent and Reverse Heart Disease, Arthritis, Diabetes, Allergies, and Asthma
  3. The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Anti-Inflammation Diet (Complete Idiot's Guide to) The Complete Idiot's Guide to the Anti-Inflammation Diet (Complete Idiot's Guide to)
  4. Inflammation Nation: The First Clinically Proven Eating Plan to End Our Nation's Secret Epidemic Inflammation Nation: The First Clinically Proven Eating Plan to End Our Nation's Secret Epidemic
  5. The Anti-Inflammation Zone: Reversing the Silent Epidemic That's Destroying Our Health (Zone (Regan)) The Anti-Inflammation Zone: Reversing the Silent Epidemic That's Destroying Our Health (Zone (Regan))

ASIN: 0897934857

Book Description

The connection between inflammation and heart disease, arthritis, and other chronic ailments has become increasingly clear. Many food allergies and poor dietary choices over stimulate the immune system and cause inflammatory responses that erode the body’s wellness and pave the path for ill health. Based on her naturopathic practice, Jessica Black has devised a complete program for how to eat and cook to minimize and even prevent inflammation and its consequences. The first part of the book explains the benefits of the anti-inflammatory diet with an accessible discussion of the science behind it. The second half contains 108 recipes. The author offers many substitution suggestions and includes a healthy ingredient tip with each recipe. Most of the dishes can be prepared quickly and easily by even novice cooks. A week of sample menus for summer months and another for winter are included, as well as a substitutions chart, allowing readers to modify their favorite recipes to increase their healing potential.

Customer Reviews:

5 out of 5 stars An excellent, health-promoting guide .......2007-08-04

Naturopathic physician Jessica K. Black presents The Anti-Inflammation Diet and Recipe Book, a guide offering 125 recipes, lists of foods to eat and foods to avoid, and a full week of sample menus for summer and winter months. Written especially for individuals attempting to follow an anti-inflammatory diet who have trouble finding recipes to use, The Anti-Inflammation Diet and Recipe Book offers entrees, breakfasts, salads, soups, and desserts that exclude common allergens and inflammation-aggravators such as fried foods, foods with hydrogenated oils, peanuts and peanut products, alcohol, juice, caffeinated teas and sodas, potatoes, tomatoes, wheat products, corn, sugar, pork, citrus fruits and more. Chapters also recommend foods that should be prominently featured in an anti-inflammation diet, such as pineapple (due to its content of bromelain), most fruits and vegetables, garlic, ginger, tumeric, flaxseed oil, and others. An excellent, health-promoting guide especially recommended for anyone coping with arthritis or other inflammatory illnesses.

5 out of 5 stars Buy this book!.......2007-05-30

One of the most difficult challenges I have faced when suggesting to my patients on dietary modifications is offering patients alternatives to their inflammatory menus. Not only has Dr. Black provided easy to prepare and tasty recipes, but the ingredients serve their purpose: they favor pathways that decrease inflammation. Hence patients with intensely inflammatory conditions, such as rhumatoid arthritis, have been able to experience relief, thanks to this cookbook. It offers recipes that appeal to kids and provides ample educational material for patients to resource. It is the ideal cookbook for all.

5 out of 5 stars A Wonderful Resource .......2007-05-19

This book has been a powerful resource in my practice for many years dating back to its original self-published version. I have found that foremost in the process of restoring a persons health is inflammatory reduction. It is this inflammation which often initiates and propogates a disease process that eventually creates pathology. Dr. Black's book is an essential tool for implementing my recommended dietary changes on a practical level. It is full of helpful educational material and ripe with a multitude of savory and delicious recipes. This book will give you all the necessary information to begin a positive lifestyle change which you can then apply to your own cullinary creations. For those people looking to restore health naturally, Dr. Black's book will not disappoint.

5 out of 5 stars My patients LOVE this Book!.......2007-05-18

One of the most difficult aspects of nutritional counseling is helping people make dietary changes. This book makes these transitions much easier by providing reasons for reducing inflammation in the body, nutritional facts about common foods which may cause inflammation --and best of all--tasty recipes and helpful hints.

My patients LOVE this book and it has become an important part of the dietary portion of my "Simple Steps to Wellness" programs.

Dr. Karen Benton, Naturopathic Physician


5 out of 5 stars Great Resource!!.......2007-05-18

I have been using the dietary recommendations outlined in Dr. Black's book for a number of years with my patients. It is so helpful to have a comprehensive cookbook that explains why people should eat this way and how they should do it! It really has made dietary changes less overwhelming for people that may have been intimidated to make big shifts in the way that they eat. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is interested in addressing their health concerns from a foundational level.

Dr. Nina Paroo

Books:

  1. The Aquariums of Pyongyang: Ten Years in the North Korean Gulag
  2. The Bodyguard's Story: Diana, the Crash, and the Sole Survivor
  3. The Book of Salt: A Novel
  4. The Boys of Everest: Chris Bonington and the Tragedy of Climbing's Greatest Generation
  5. The Endurance: Shackleton's Legendary Antarctic Expedition
  6. The Industrial Revolution, 1760-1830 (OPUS)
  7. The Lost Love Letters of Heloise and Abelard: Perceptions of Dialogue in Twelfth-Century France (The New Middle Ages)
  8. The Naked Civil Servant (Penguin Classics)
  9. The Oxford Dictionary of the Christian Church
  10. The Photoshop Channels Book

Books Index

Books Home

Recommended Books

  1. An Introduction to Web Design and Programming
  2. Scott 2005 Standard Postage Stamp Catalogue, Vol. 5: Countries of the World P-Sl
  3. How To Get Out of Debt...And Into Praise
  4. Not for Sale: The Return of the Global Slave Trade--and How We Can Fight It
  5. Mel Bay Jazz Guitar Standards Chord Melody Solos
  6. The Death of Superman
  7. Planet Earth: As You've Never Seen It Before
  8. Data, Voice, and Video Cable Installation
  9. Information Technology: Strategic Decision-Making for Managers
  10. My Father Had a Daughter: Judith Shakespeare's Tale