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...Sins of the Father by Jaid Black Candy Morgan has always felt badly about the fact that her father duped and then fired his former protégée, James Douglas Mahoney III. Worse yet, she knows that JD has always believed her to be a part of the conspiracy to get rid of him. When JD comes to power during a hostile takeover of Morgan Chemicals, Candy realizes he will want revenge against her family so she prepares herself to be ousted from the company. But much to her surprise, JD doesn't oust her. Instead, he wants his vendetta against the Morgans settled in an entirely different fashion, in a way Candy never could have imagined in her wildest, most wicked dream... Surrender by Lora Leigh Cole has wanted Tess for years. And he's warned her of this several times. He's also warned her HOW he wants her. Tied down in his bed, under his domination, surrendering to his desires...
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Ties that Bind.......2007-06-17
Wow! I read this book in one sitting. I think both stories are real hot reads. I likes Lora Leigh's story the best. I've read alot of her books and she didn't dissapoint. It was well worth the price.
"Ties That Bind" will turn up the heat to scorching!.......2005-08-08
It kicks off with "Sins of the Father", one of my first stories by the legendary Queen of Steam, Jaid Black. Candy Morgan's family company was in trouble. Her father no longer alive to run things, Candy has been in charge, unaware that her father's former protege has been waiting in the wings, ready to take over at the first sign of weakness. James Douglas Mahoney III is ready to take out his revenge, and taking over Morgan Chemicals is just a small part of his plan. His real goal is to take over Candy, the prize that had been dangled before him years ago. This time he's not wearing rose-colored glasses - he knows exactly what he wants and he plans to get it. Unaware of Candy's innocence to his firing, or of her longtime crush on him, JD has specific ideas of Candy's new role in the company, and they involve fulfilling every fantasy he's ever had about her. Very exciting and erotic, "Sins" touches on some forbidden fantasies many women may have about being kidnapped or submission. I think the story focuses more on a woman's pleasure and not about humiliation as JD always is gentle and caring in his treatment of Candy. Definitely a must-read for fans of Jaid Black.
"Surrender" by Lora Leigh kicks off her Bound Hearts series, and was my first by her. Cole has always made Tess nervous, but she can't deny how much she wants him. But rumors of his lifestyle have kept her away from him. Now her father wants her home, so she comes back for a visit, aware that Cole will be there, but is convinced she can resist temptation. But Cole is not taking "no" for an answer this time. He wants her badly, and will have her no matter what it takes. Cole believes there is a certain special bond that exists between him and Tess, one that includes bringing another man into their bedroom to bring her the ultimate fulfillment. Not just any man - his best friend Jesse. Cole loves Tess and only wants to make her happy, to give her more pleasure than she ever dreamed. But Tess feels her desires are wrong, dirty. With Cole's love, she learns that as long as they share in this pleasure together, her fantasies are something special between them, and not anything she should be ashamed of. Instead she finds her soul mate, the man who makes her feel alive and happy.
Both stories have very strong sexual fantasies which are not for everyone. But for those who enjoy these types of fantasies, "Ties That Bind" will not disappoint. It's a book I highly recommend.
Could have been 5 stars.......2004-10-31
Okay, these two stories were absolutely erotic and the sex scenes sizzling, BUT....bondage stories can be written without the humiliation aspect. Tittilation without humilating the women would be preferable. I kept thinking that if a guy tried pulling that attitude on me, he would have gotten a knee in the groin, no matter how good the sex was afterward.
Erotic short stories... .......2004-08-25
Jaid Black's Sins of the Father - Candy & James begin by making a bargain. She marries him (many stipulations in the marriage contract - including absolute obedience) and he doesn't destroy her family's finaces in a business take over. This didn't exactly come out of nowhere. He used to work for her father - deceased - until her father had fired him years ago - for no apparent reason. She agrees mostly because she's wanted him since she was a kid and she figures she'll get out of it eventually - An erotic tale that lets the characters develop.
Lora Leigh's Surrender is the story of Tess and Cole. Tess has been avoiding Cole for awhile after he made a hard pass at one of her father's parties. She was interested but put him off. She is somewhat repressed - living with her very controlling and unhappy mother. She goes to visit her father and ends up spending the week with Cole who is more then willing to fulfill her every desire (including a threesome - which seems to be LLeigh's thing).
Both stories were good. JBlack has a better understanding of how to write short stories but LLiegh's story was also good - though her characters didn't develop as much.
The book all together with both stories is still pretty short and in both stories I wished there was more to them - but enjoyable.
Very Entertaining.......2004-05-01
I enjoyed reading both stories, the authors are two of my favorites. You will love this book if you are into some bondage and two guys and one girl thing. If not, than this book is not for you. Although both stories are about sex the characters seem to be able to form a relationship, which somehow turns in to love. Both authors make their characters work for what they want, so that when you are getting toward the end of each story you don't want it to end.
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A self-help guide to change through Family of Origin therapy
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Family Ties That Bind Us.......2007-07-23
Book arrived with in time frame and in good condition. Really enjoy ordering my books this way with such a reliable service.
Family Ties That Binds.......2007-07-20
Very insightful book on family of origin, formation on one's personality, and finding ways to heal from your past...
A great way to get started on understanding family.......2002-03-06
I have been recommending this book to friends and colleagues who are struggling with family issues. It is easy to read, and yet raises very relevant and practical questions. This is the perfect bridge between the most powerful academic ideas, and practical steps for anyone to take to understand themselves, and create better relationships with their family.
There are many cases presented in the book that can help you see that what you're experiencing is common, and can be worked through. The underlying structure of the book is very solid--based on Friedman's emotional systems stuff. There is a part at the end on how to research and learn from your family history, going back several generations.
Finally, there is a fun chapter on family position. I think it is meant to be general, and taken with a grain of salt. Having said that, I've found the research on the link between family position and couple compatibility to be very interesting.
If you like this book and want more depth, read "Generation to Generation" by Edwin Friedman.
Differentiation - a key to being and giving.......2001-04-01
I read this book on the advice of a wonderful counselor. What I found most remarkable was that the Family Systems approach confirms the crucial importance of fathers in our lives, both as men and women. It seems that in our desire to correct the injustices commited against women by selfish and angry men, we have gone too far and ignored the fact that a father's love is vitally important for both men and women to find wholeness. This book doesn't give all the answers, but it is a step towards finding healing for our brokenness and the freedom to freely give of ourselves to loved ones, friends, and all those in need around us. A good follow up read to this book is Leanne Payne's "Crisis in Masculinity".
Brief and superficial.......2000-09-10
Disappointing in its brevity, this book is little more than a pamphlet. Despite purporting to address issues of birth order, this book provides only a few pages on the entire topic, and covers the entire realm of possible "middle" children in less than two pages, without even bothering to address the issue of gender, which are at least mentioned for other birth positions. Furthermore, it claims middle children are likely to be "confused about their identity", "less likely to take the initiative or think independently", "the lowest achievers academically and the least likely in a family to go to college", "often feel that life is unfair", "become self destructive by becoming a gang member or a petty criminal (but rarely a big-time crook). Often they will just develop annoying habits".
But don't worry, "middle" children out there, according to Dr Richardson, there is a wonderful career waiting for you as a secretary or a waiter!!! I'm not sure how this is supposed to be helpful to someone hoping to understand the impact of their family of origin.
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An examination of adults who have been manipulated by divorcing parents.
Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) occurs when divorcing parents use children as pawns, trying to turn the child against the other parent. This book examines the impact of PAS on adults and offers strategies and hope for dealing with the long-term effects.
Customer Reviews:
Out of the Mouths of Alienated Babes.......2007-10-16
In 2006, Dr, Paul Fink, former president of the American Psychiatric Association stated that PAS does not exist. In this his business partner, Richard Ducote, agrees. (Ducote was the lawyer for the infamous parental kidnapper Elizabeth Morgan who concocted for her the accusations that her ex Eric Foretich, his parents, and his little daughter from a previous marriage regularly engaged in tri-generational bisexual incestuous Satanic Ritual Abuse orgies with Foretich and Morgan baby daughter with (see the important account of the case by Jonathan Groner, "Hilary's Trial," 1991)). Baker's objective empirical study controverts many the wild speculations of the PAS nay-sayers by going to their victims directly: the grown up victims of child abuse in the form of PAS.
Adult Children Of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Breaking the Ties That Bind.......2007-10-16
Very passionately and eloquently written. This book addresses issues that people want to "sweep under the rug". I highly recommend this book to anyone that is divorced or has a relative or good friend that is going through divorce.
Enlightening...and Encouraging-tool for hope.......2007-10-13
Dr. Amy Baker's book has given me the hope, and understanding, that I have sought for years. She is able to enlighten the reader in layman's terms, but also give full weight to the diagnosis...PAS. As a targeted parent, searching for information over the last few years, it wasn't until reading this book--that I learned how to attempt to breakthrough the barriers constructed from parental alienation. And hold on to hope!
PAS is very real and very damaging.......2007-08-17
I appreciate the way the author explains the narcissic personality, compares the obsessive alienator to a cult leader and the children and alienated parent to members of a cult. The book is a bit technical for the general reader seeking information and is quite informative for those wanting to dig deeper into PAS.
Must Read for Targeted Parents.......2007-07-12
Dr. Baker does a great job in the book of explaining things from the child's point of view--a reference targeted parents never get. It gives much hope and advice to targeted parents, as well as making children question what they thought they knew.
She just did my radio show today (Parents Rule!) and was wonderful! Discussed her points in such a warm, caring manner--the same manner that comes through in the book.
Highly recommend it!!
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Now in paper, Getting the Gospel Right calls Christians to greater unity in the gospel. It contains the complete text of The Gospel of Jesus Christ, a statement accepted and signed by Methodist, Presbyterian, Pentecostal, cessationist, Baptist, Lutheran, Anglican, and free church leaders. Along with the statement, Sproul offers readers a thorough, point-by-point discussion and exposition. ''Some of us want to get the gospel right; some of us just want to get it out. With a generous combination of love and conviction, R. C. Sproul helps us all to do both better.'' -Michael Horton. ''If you want the gospel, in all its ramifications, made perfectly clear to you, you will find no better source of information than this book by one of America's outstanding Christian theologians.'' -D. James Kennedy
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What Is The Cost of Unity?.......2004-08-21
"Getting The Gospel Right" is R.C. Sproul's sequel to the popular book "Faith Alone: The Evangelical Doctrine of Justification" and is a thorough treatment of the subject of Christian unity. It is essentially a response to a document that tested the boundaries of unity between Roman Catholics and Evangelical Protestants: "The Gift of Salvation" (also known as ECT II) which was released subsequently to the original "Evangelicals and Catholics Together." These documents were both written and signed by leading members of Evangelical and Catholic churches as a means to promote unity between the churches. They chose to find common ground and unite on that basis rather than focus on the differences that separated them. Sproul and several other prominent Reformed Christians stood against this document, insisting that it did not form an adequate basis for unity with the Roman Catholic Church.
The book is divided into three sections. The first is entitled Controversy Concerning The Gospel and provides background to the importance of Christian unity in traditional Evangelicalism. The section functions almost as an introductory course to Christian doctrine regarding unity. Among other topics it discusses the distinction between the visible and invisible church, the marks of a true church and Christ's desire for unity.
In the second section Sproul provides the complete text to "The Gift of Salvation" and then provides a thorough examination of each paragraph. His amazing depth of knowledge allows him to delve deeply into the document and point out many problems with it. He shows where the language is ambiguous and goes into lengthy explanation about the differences between the Catholic and Protestant views on soteriology. His conclusion is that the two systems of theology are so far removed that they cannot be brought into harmony. "The Gift of Salvation" does nothing to remove the doctrinal chasm created by the simple word "alone." Until Rome concedes on the "solas" of the Reformation, there can be no unity. Further, unity on such terms as outlined in this document is damaging to the Evangelical churches as it undermines critical theology. There can be no unity without unity in the gospel, which means there certainly cannot be unity at the expense of the gospel. The unity expressed by the signatories of "The Gift of Salvation" is empty since it denies the importance of obvious and insurmountable differences in doctrine.
The final section is an examination of a document drafted by Sproul and other leading theologians entitled "The Gospel of Jesus Christ." They feel this document should provide the basis for unity among Evangelicals. "The Gospel of Jesus Christ" carefully and consistently lays out the foundations of Protestant theology, leaving absolutely no room for ambiguity. As with the previous document, Sproul examines it paragraph by paragraph, explaining the meaning and importance of each of the affirmations and denials. Sproul says that "[the affirmations and denials they list] are the foundation that expresses the mission of the church. For the church to be faithful to the Great Commission, we must get the gospel right. When we do, we will both energize the church's activity and encourage deep and abiding unity among Evangelicals."
This book is as good a treatment of the subject of unity as I have read. While deeply theological, it is also very readable. Sproul has a gift for presenting deep truths in a way that is easy to understand. I recommend this book to anyone interested in learning what the Bible says about unity, and further to people interested in an overview of the doctrinal differences between Protestants and Catholics.
Lines up with the view of most evangelicals..........2003-10-08
R.C. Sproul is one of the finest preachers in the nation! His books are even better! Agree with nearly everything he says in this delightful, easy-to-read book.
A call to arms for evangelicals.......2003-05-31
It should be noted from Art Sippo's review that he is strongly Roman Catholic, so why should we be suprised that he does not come to the same conclusions about the Gospel as evangelicals do? What we should be suprised by is the fact Mr. Sippo could be so blind that he could see right past the cover where it says "The Tie that Binds EVANGELICALS Together". He is right about the fact that this isn't a defense of sola fide. But then again Dr. Sproul makes it quite clear that it isn't intended to be. This is a call for evangelicals to get their acts together. Mr. Sippo's anti-evangelical bias was the sole basis for his reveiw. I suppose my frustration towards Mr. Sippo was mine. Dr. Sproul couldn't make it clearer in the opening pages that this book is for the evangelical community. Mr. Sippo's review is essentially irrelevant for that reason.
Calls a spade a spade.......2002-07-03
Sproul demonstrates that Roman Catholicism and Evangelical Protestantism are simply not in agreement when it comes to the essential issue of how a person is justified before God--and both ways cannot be correct. At one time in church history, both sides recognized this and felt passionately about it. Now, fuzzy theology and "spiritual" experience has tended to blunt the sharp edge of biblical and theological truth.
Readers in either camp should be happy that the issue has been clarified. The quest for unity at the expense of truth--or even truthfulness about the positions in question--is not helpful. Let each side figure out what they believe and try to convince the other--but let us be done with saying that we all believe the same thing when there are clear and critical differences!
If you want help in understanding those differences and in understanding how you can be sure of your eternal destiny through faith in Jesus Christ alone--and not having to wait for some final judgment you have no hope of surviving--read this book and anything else Sproul has written along with the New Testament.
Grace alone, faith alone, Christ alone!
A COMPARISON, not an argument.......2002-03-26
Contrary to what many of this book's reviewers seem to believe, this book is not intended to be a comprehensive argument for the Protestant soteriologial position. Rather, this is Sproul's rejection of the soteriological portions of recent documents signed by prominent representatives of the Roman and Protestant churches in an attempt to bring unity between the two. He argues that despite claims on both sides that an accord on the subjects of justification, sanctification, faith, grace, etc. has been reached, no true unity has been attained - the two sides are still in disagreement over the nature of Christ's saving work.
Further, Sproul argues that this attempt at harmony is damaging to the knowledge and spreading of the true Gospel as communicated in the Bible. He chastises Protestants for not knowing how to precisely and accurately put the Gospel into words and calls them to correct that problem before more damage is done.
Don't let the other reviews fool you - this book is an excellent exposition of the Biblical position of the nature of mankind's salvation through the work of Christ. The series of Affirmations and Denials that constitute a majority of this book are one of the clearest defenses of this position you can find. But for those who are still not convinced or for those who seek to read even further regarding the Biblical and historical errors of the modern Roman position, see Robert L. Reymond's "The Reformation's Conflict with Rome: Why it Must Continue," ISBN 1857926269.
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- fantastic historical fiction
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Ties That Bind, Ties That Break
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It's 1911, and China is slowly beginning to accept modern ideas--but the changes may not happen fast enough for young Ailin. Her grandmother has decided it's time she has her feet bound, to make her more attractive to a future husband. When Ailin sees the sad state of her sister's feet, she is stunned. "I stared at the pitiful stumps at the end of Second Sister's legs... her foot had been squeezed into a wedge: the big toe had been left undeformed, but the rest of the foot... had been forced down under the sole... like a piece of bread folded over." Luckily, Ailin's progressive father allows her to keep her feet unfettered, even though it means breaking off her prearranged marriage into a more traditional family. He also sends her to a public school to learn English. But by the time Ailin is in her teens, her father has died, leaving her less tolerant Big Uncle to be the head of the family. Big Uncle forbids Ailin's schooling and gives her the choice of either being a nun or a peasant's wife--the only alternatives left for an unmarried Chinese woman with "big feet." Ailin refuses both options, and instead becomes a nanny for an American missionary couple. Due to their generosity, Ailin starts a new life in the United States.
Powerfully told in flashback, Ties that Bind, Ties that Break is a thoughtful exploration of the ways cultural pressures can bend not only our personal values but even our physical appearance. And this gripping, lyrical story's theme may be most meaningful to those teens who feel the need to pierce and tattoo their bodies in order to fit into contemporary adolescent society. (Ages 11 to 14) --Jennifer Hubert
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Third Sister in the Tao family, Ailin has watched her two older sisters go through the painful process of having their feet bound. In China in 1911, all the women of good families follow this ancient tradition. But Ailin loves to run away from her governess and play games with her male cousins. Knowing she will never run again once her feet are bound, Ailin rebels and refuses to follow this torturous tradition.
As a result, however, the family of her intended husband breaks their marriage agreement. And as she enters adolescence, Ailin finds that her family is no longer willing to support her. Chinese society leaves few options for a single woman of good family, but with a bold conviction and an indomitable spirit, Ailin is determined to forge her own destiny. Her story is a tribute to all those women whose courage created new options for the generations who came after them.
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fantastic historical fiction.......2007-08-23
Ties that Bind is one of my all time favorite books. Great character development, great dialog, and wonderful settings bring you back to a time when it hurt to be a woman. Ailin's indulgent father saves her from having her feet bound and from living the stifling life of an upperclass Chinese woman. Ailin ultimately has to move from her father's house after he dies and ends up in America, with her own business and a man with whom she is deeply in love.
This is a good book for teens who are required to read an historical novel and a great read for those who just like to read!
Very good -- I liked it a lot!.......2007-04-27
Ties That Bind, Ties That Break is about Ailin, a girl in China who refuses to have her feet bound. It is set in a time where foot binding is beginning to stop (1911) , but the only person in her family who approves of Ailin not having her feet bound is her father. Because she refuses, her marriage engagement is broken off. A few years later, Ailin's father sends her to a public school, which her uncle disapproves of. Though it is a public school, they still have to pay tuition. During Ailin's English class, she does so well that she is given an American name: Eileen. She likes it because it is close to her real name. When her father dies, Ailin's uncle pulls her out of school, claiming it is too expensive. Ailin continues to take English, though, with her teacher Miss Gilbertson. Ailin is soon fluent in English.
When Ailin's uncle gives her the choice to become a concubine, a nun, or a farmer's wife, (these are her "only" choices because she has big feet) she goes against his choices and decides to become an amah (governess) for American missionaries. The missionaries are Mr. and Mrs. Garner, who are friends of Ailin's teacher, Miss Gilbertson. Their two children, Grace and Billy, soon become good friends of Ailin. After a few years when the Garners want to go back to America, Ailin decides to go with them.
On the boat, she meets James Chew. He is a charming young man, and Ailin ends up telling him her story. She also learns James story, and finds out he is going to America to help his brother run his (now retired) father's restaurant. James and Ailin see each other many times in San Francisco Chinatown, and he tells her that he is going to start his own restaurant, as he hates working with his brother. A little while later, James asks Ailin if she will marry him, and she says yes. When the Garners decide to go back to China, Ailin stays, helping James start his restaurant.
My favorite part is on the boat and in America, when Ailin learns that while the Garners were in China, they were rich, and could afford a large house, servants, and many luxuries; while on the American boat, they are only in second class, and in America they have no servants. I think it is very interesting what she realized, mainly because I had just realized that myself. Also, it shows that if Ailin's family had gone on the boat, they might have only been able to afford second class too, which would be extremely different for them.
I would recommend this book to anyone who likes stories about China, because it is written well and has a good plot, and unlike some novels, has a moral. The moral is this: "Follow your heart." That's what I think anyway. It is a short read, so if you're in the mood for something short, this is also a good book to read.
Pretty good...........2007-04-26
This book was pretty good, and it had a good storyline/plot. It was interesting but it was one of those books I could put down for a long time and not really care. If you're interested in a good story about a Chinese girl, you should read "Chinese Cinderella: The True Story of an Unwanted Daughter", by Adeline Yen Mah. Especially for those of you who have said that "Ties That Bind, Ties That Break" lacks suspense, you might enjoy "Chinese Cinderella." Also, if you want to buy "Ties That Bind, Ties That Break," you might want to read it first, because it's a story you can either like or not like. Good luck in finding what you want!
Bucking Tradition.......2007-04-23
It was a tradition in China for many generations for little girls to have their feet bound. That meant that when they were young, strips of cloth were wound around their feet to fold all of their toes except their big toe down underneath their feet. This made it difficult and painful for them to walk; they had to walk with little swaying steps, which was the sign of true aristocracy. Women who had their feet bound wore tiny pointed shoes and could never do any sort of physical labor for which they had to stand up.
In high class families, it was common for marriages to be arranged at early ages. So when Ailin was four years old, a deal was made for her to eventually marry Hanwei Liu, who was then seven. The two children met and liked each other well enough, and the families agreed that it would be a good match for them both.
But then, when Ailin's mother and servants tried to bind her feet, she threw a tantrum and refused to let them. Her father relented, stating that times were changing in China and if Ailin wanted to run free, she should be allowed to do so. Shortly after they found out, Hanwei's parents broke off the engagement.
It seemed that Ailin's prospects for marriage were nonexistent, then, so her father instead sent her to school, a decision deeply argued by her uncle. At school Ailin showed great aptitude, especially in learning the English language. After the death of her father, her uncle made her drop out of school, but her English teacher still gave her lessons on the side, and soon Ailin was fluent.
When her uncle told her he was going to give her away to a family as a concubine, a mate of lower class than a wife, she refused, escaping from her family home to be a nanny for American missionaries living in China. But is this the life she really wants? Will she ever be able to make her family see that marrying a high-class boy isn't all there is to life?
I liked that Ailin was such a strong character, who refused to let others run her life. I also liked Ailin's older sister and the way she protected Ailin and taught her. I didn't like, though, that Ailin felt she had to leave her entire family in order to find happiness. I also was infuriated at the whole idea of foot binding; it seemed like such a terrible and cruel thing to do to so many young children.
Interesting, but needed more suspense.......2007-04-11
This was a interesting topic to choose and I am wondering more and more about foot binding. Although it could have used more mystery or suspense it had a good story line.The authors point seems to be that you should speak up for what you believe in.In the end it seemed that Alilin had changed the minds of the chinese people around her.Over all it was a pretty good book.However,if you are looking for something exciting this would not be your first pick.
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Who is this written for?.......2007-02-09
There's some good information here. However, it often reads more like a manual for therapists than a guide for the average reader.
Suspect the author was speaking to both audiences but it sometimes just doesn't work.
Fantastic!.......2002-09-20
I have been cutting the ties that bind now for two years. It gives you so much freedom to be free from ties you have created with others, and it frees them also. I still have a lot of ties to cut at this stage and I am moving through them with ease, thanks to this wonderful technique. I recommend this book to everybody.
spiritual psychothrapy based on Jung's teachings.......2000-06-15
This book gives you the tools to cut from your negative childhood programming and be guided only by your own higher consicousness. I recommend it highly to anyone wishing to be free from reacting to the ghosts of one's past.
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Colorado, January 1977. Eighty-year-old Edith Goodnough lies in a hospital bed, IV taped to the back of her hand, police officer at her door. She is charged with murder. The clues: a sack of chicken feed slit with a knife, a milky-eyed dog tied outdoors one cold afternoon. The motives: the brutal business of farming and a family code of ethics as unforgiving as the winter prairie itself.
In his critically acclaimed first novel, Kent Haruf delivers the sweeping tale of a woman of the American High Plains, as told by her neighbor, Sanders Roscoe. As Roscoe shares what he knows, Edith's tragedies unfold: a childhood of pre-dawn chores, a mother's death, a violence that leaves a father dependent on his children, forever enraged. Here is the story of a woman who sacrifices her happiness in the name of family--and then, in one gesture, reclaims her freedom. Breathtaking, determinedly truthful,
The Tie That Binds is a powerfully eloquent tribute to the arduous demands of rural America, and of the tenacity of the human spirit.
Customer Reviews:
homespun tale with vivid character sketches.......2007-07-21
The slow pace of this book was at times a struggle, but after having completed the novel, I now appreciate the tone and speed of this novel, the gentle unwinding of the characters and their experiences. What kept me intrigued was the mystery ending of finding out WHO and WHY Edith killed. I enjoyed reading the character's journey, struggles and triumphs. I hated some of the characters and LOVED some of the characters. There were some vivid, gory descriptions including the farm accident in the first 1/4 of the book. I think that Haruf captivated the emotions of his characters and lures the reader in - I couldn't put the book down for the entire last half.
First Haruf novel I've read........2007-04-15
I really enjoyed this book. It felt like I was sitting there listening to the story. After completing this book I am now reading Plainsong.
A step ahead of Where You Once Belonged.......2006-06-27
I believe this is Haruf's second book, after Where You Once Belonged, and it is better than that, but not quite as good as Plainsong. It is definitely worth the read...strongly developed characters and a heartbreaking story.
Like a flower slowly blooming.......2005-09-12
The slow pace of this novel works not only to create a sense of the unhurried, methodical, sometimes monotonous lifestyle of rural farm families in Holt, Colorado, but also serves to let the pieces of a mystery slowly unfold with each chapter. The story of Edith Goodnough, accused of murder, is told from a neighbor's point of view, and the narrative voice is in no hurry to get to the heart of the details of the supposed murder, yet manages to divulge and foreshadow enough information to keep the reader's attention piqued.
Almost as good as PLAINSONG!.......2005-05-07
THE TIE THAT BINDS is structured differently than PLAINSONG. For one thing it's written in first person and the narrator, rancher Sanders Roscoe, holds the point of view throughout the novel. But the story is really about Edith Goodnough, who is being charged with the murder of her brother. Roscoe takes us all the way back to the nineteenth century when Edith's father Roy emigrated to Holt County, Colorado. He and his wife, Ada, have two children, Edith and Lyman. Roy is an ornery cuss who treats his family like possessions. Ada, who longs for her home country in Iowa, soon dies and Edith becomes the mother, a role she will play for the rest of her life.
Sanders' father once had a romantic attachment to Edith but Roy rejects him because he's part Native American. His father never quite gets over Edith and makes Sanders help out at the Goodnoughs when Roy tries to make Edith work in the fields. She becomes a second mother to Sanders.
These characters are simply amazing. Lyman Goodnough, who escapes his father during WWII and travels the U.S. for most of his life, is a true original. Little Rena Roscoe, Sanders' daughter, adds a little comic relief to the story when she forms an attachment to the increasingly senile Lyman. About the only character from PLAINSONG that's familiar is Sheriff Bud Sealy, who incites Sanders' wrath when he arrests Edith. Believe me, it doesn't matter; this author can make the most transitory character resonate with life.
Kent Haruf has more compassion in his little toenail than some of our religious leaders have in their whole congregation. When Edith's father dies, she winds up alone. Haruf's description of what this does to a person, sent shivers up my spine. I cannot recommend this novel highly enough. I've read PLAINSONG, EVENSONG and now THE TIE THAT BINDS, and I can't wait for the next episode in the lives of the people who live in Holt, Colorado.
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The Ties That Bind
Electa Rome Parks
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Book Description
Here's a straight-up novel about men and women, sex and betrayal, and playing the fool for love. Mia is a hopeless romantic who dreams of getting married and settling down with the man who could make that dream come true. Brice has his own ideas about love. He wants a woman willing to surrender everything and he thinks he's found her in Mia. Then again, so has Christian, who likes love to last just as long as the night takes. Now he's met an angel with the power to turn him around. Unfortunately she's married to his best friend.
Customer Reviews:
Great Story.......2006-12-17
I read this and "Loose Ends" some time ago but did not own them. I ordered both books to add to my collection, but when I received them I read both again and loved the story just like the first time. I was a little disappointed with Mia and Brice's characters but not the story which is not completely tied up until you read "Loose Ends"
Surprising.......2006-02-19
This book was great. I was surprised as I thought it would be typical and predictable.
Great Quick Read.......2005-10-08
Electa has a way of bringing you so close to the characters in The Ties That Bind. You feel as though you know them. Very vivid scenes! Christian tried his best to be faithful to his best friend. Brice.... lord you just wanna shoot him! I only wish that Mia would have been stronger. With all that she went through, I am glad however that she was successful in the end. I don't wanna say too much and give the story away, so I will just say buy a copy, and see if you finish it in one day as I did!
You've gotta get both books at the same time.... .......2005-10-07
I bought both "The Ties That Bind" and "Loose Ends" at the same time and I am glad that I did. After flying through "The Ties That Bind" I jumped strait into "Loose Ends". Both books are filled with emotion, and suspense. The author makes you care about the characters (another reason I was so anxious to read the next book) and want to yell out to them, "What are you thinking?" Recommended, good, quick read. Buy It!!
Excellent.......2005-09-06
I can't write a good enough review for this book.
I have read a lot of books on spousal abuse but this one seemed more down to earth then most...it didn't seem as though Mia tried to make excuses for why she stayed she stayed with Brice she stayed for love...maybe this isn't the best review but if you are thinking of reading this book. Please do...
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This beautifully written book tells the haunting saga of a quintessentially American family. It is the story of Shoe Boots, a famed Cherokee warrior and successful farmer, and Doll, an African slave he acquired in the late 1790s. Over the next thirty years, Shoe Boots and Doll lived together as master and slave and also as lifelong partners who, with their children and grandchildren, experienced key events in American history--including slavery, the Creek War, the founding of the Cherokee Nation and subsequent removal of Native Americans along the Trail of Tears, and the Civil War. This is the gripping story of their lives, in slavery and in freedom.
Meticulously crafted from historical and literary sources, Ties That Bind vividly portrays the members of the Shoeboots family. Doll emerges as an especially poignant character, whose life is mostly known through the records of things done to her--her purchase, her marriage, the loss of her children--but also through her moving petition to the federal government for the pension owed to her as Shoe Boots's widow. A sensitive rendition of the hard realities of black slavery within Native American nations, the book provides the fullest picture we have of the myriad complexities, ironies, and tensions among African Americans, Native Americans, and whites in the first half of the nineteenth century.
Customer Reviews:
Revealing Little Known History.......2007-01-04
This book provides excellent insight into a little known part of American history. Few people realize that some American Indian tribes (particularly the "Five Civilized Tribes") practiced slavery and this text delves into the complex relationships resulting from it. The impact of the practice has repercussions still felt today. Most importantly, it reveals the rarely addressed interaction between African-Americans and Native Americans dating back to the earliest history of the United States.
Very Informative.......2005-04-15
I recently finished reading Tiya Miles' book. Several things impressed me regarding this work; the first one is the topic. I was surprised to learn that at one time Native Americans owned slaves! I am a college educated retired teacher and I believe this is something I should have learned somewhere in my education. I was also impressed with the research that was used as a basis for Ms. Miles' writing. A reader of her work has more than ample supply of resources to use for further reading. I also believe this book should be required reading for any American history curriculum at the college level.
Outstanding scholarship and storytelling!.......2005-03-29
First, let me say how much I enjoyed this book. It is a work of tremendous research informed by a mature mind which deeply understands the roles of history and story in creating self-identity.
I was alerted to its existence by Ilene Shepard Smiddy, author of DAUGHTER OF SHILOH, also a splendid narrative/adventure retelling a part of the Shoeboots story, but centering on Clarinda Allington and her children.
Dr. Miles provides us with a helpful family tree in the front of the book, and inside there are maps that help orient the story. The historical asides and reflections using Toni Morrison's BELOVED are treasures. Inside too are several illustrations and pictures, including one of a Shoeboots descendant. The text is divided into logical chapters. The notes are easy to follow and delicious to read, and they are followed by a full bibliography and a comprehensive index.
I would like to see the notes expanded to include the family of Napoleon Bonaparte, perhaps a grandson of Shoeboots, or of one of the Shoeboots, and who entered the mainstream population in Kentucky as a free black.
As Dr. Miles points out, there was more than one individual who was referred to as the Boot or Shoeboots (and other nicknames, in both English and Cherokee), and I suspect that this was a concept name involving the crow or the rooster--the hero of a Cherokee parable. It is fascinating to read about here, and her arguments are engaging. Highly recommended reading!
Book Description
How do we strengthen our children's souls?
How do we fortify them with a sense of obligation, hope, faith, trust, and a burning desire to achieve?
In this wise and important book, you will discover unlimited answers that are yours for the takingâthe keys to raising children with strong values and a positive sense of purpose and identity.
Today's childrenâmany of them blessed with more material wealth and education than any generation beforeâgreet the world with a sense of uneasiness at best, and, at worst, a sense of despair. In The Ties That Bind, Dr. Joyce Ladner, an eminent sociologist, shows how we can empower more children with the self-confidence that will sustain them throughout their lives.
Keeping the promise of her own tradition-rich Mississippi upbringing, Dr. Ladner passes on the timeless treasure of African American values. A leading scholar and activist, she reveals how each generation taught the next a vital set of lessons in values. Drawing insight from everyday heroes, family stories, and personal experiences as a mother of a growing son, she brings those lessons to life and shapes them for our times.
Step by step, she teaches the authentic principles of the historic black value system. Finally, she demonstrates how you can pass on this legacy in a way that children will absorb through dozens of simple, everyday activities for home, church, school, and community life.
The Ties That Bind will help you give your children the foundation they need through their growing years and beyond. Let this enriching book with its healing lessons guide and nourish your family.
"A superb book reminding us of the critical need to impart to our children the traditional values that have sustained our people through centuries of struggle and pain. We forget or ignore all that we have long known at our peril, for these principles are our heritage and our hope for the future." âMarian Wright Edelman President, The Children's Defense Fund.
"A practical guide for today, and for a better tomorrow. Drawing from a rich personal and family history, as well as from over 30 years of academic endeavor, Dr. Ladner establishes the basic principles of the African American value system. If you care about African American people, then you must read this book." âDr. Johnnetta B. Cole former President, Spelman College.
"A wonderful book. Evocative of my own childhood and upbringing, it recalls and catalogues those homey virtues that we need to figure out how to recapture in these different and dangerous times. Dr. Ladner's prescriptions are a major step in that direction." âWilliam Raspberry The Washington Post.
"A crucial template for parents, youth workers, educators, and community groups working closely with young people. It outlines the essential elements necessary to center our youth and promote their healthy development and well-being." âHugh B. Price President, National Urban League.
"A masterpiece of scholarship . . . drawing on history and culture, on biography and family studies, economics, politics, sociology, and religion." âAndrew Billingsley Professor, University of South Carolina.
"An inspirational and compelling book. Everyone committed to preserving African American values should read it. Lost values lead to lost children. Dr. Ladner offers practical guidance to ensure that black children thrive as bearers of our proud legacy. The Ties That Bind is a must for your home library." âAlvin F. Poussaint, M.D. Harvard Medical School.
Customer Reviews:
GREAT BOOK!.......2000-07-23
"The Ties That Bind" is an exemplary book. It is filled with rewarding guidelines that should be used daily. "The Ties That Bind" is a drawing force to what once was an accepted way of life and guidance in our families.
Dr. Ladner has touched upon some important aspects in the rearing of our children. As Proverbs 22:6 notes, "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it."
For those who read "The Ties That Binds," you will understand that indeed there are values in life and we should want to instill these worthwhile values in not just our children's lives, but we should make sure they are embedded in our own lives.
"The Ties That Bind" is a rewarding book. It is a book worth reading. A book worth sharing with our friends and loved ones. "The Ties That Bind" is extraordinary!
Dr. Joyce Ladner's book is a must read for all parents........1999-05-23
Dr. Ladner's book is an excellent presentation of ways to keep the family together. The traditional values that families imparted many years ago are essential today and must be called upon to deal with the negative impact of environment. This scholarly written book is inspirational and compelling. Dr. Ladner has effectively outlined strategies to help all parents deal with the difficult task of being a parent. I would encourage all parents to purchase this book and share the many lessons with family members and children.
A superbly written, thought-provoking and seminal volume.......1999-03-03
"I just don't understand..." is the lament I've heard muttered over and over by the family and friends of many middle-class youth who have gotten into serious trouble in school, with the law, with drugs or who just seem to flounder hopelessly without any sense of direction. Whether this comment is uttered in reference to someone who is in his or her early teens or who is a young adult, a common thread exists. Invariably, the youth are bright and have parents who have gone to great effort and considerable expense to provide every social, cultural and economic advantage they could afford for their offspring.
In The Ties That Bind, Joyce Ladner has bored right to the core of the problem. She has identified the critical mistakes that we have made in our drive to provide our children with everything. What we have not always provided, though, are those "timeless values" that our parents drilled into us. In this dynamic book, Dr. Ladner doesn't just point out the problem - drawing on her own experiences, she has been able to supply concrete examples and explicit directions for raising self-assured and fully functioning youth. This is a must-read book for every parent!
A beautiful thought provoking read.......1999-01-13
The Ties That Bind is a timeless book that couldn't have picked a better time to be published. If one is looking for a title that deals with tangible yet spiritualy based bits of wisdom, lessons for family bonding and other ways to combat the growing feelings of isolation and moral decay in our world, this title is a must read that will be cherished and handed down from generation to generation. If you are black, white, male, female, married or not, The Ties That Bind will have a message for you in its pages.
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