Mean Chicks, Cliques, and Dirty Tricks: A Real Girl's Guide to Getting Through the Day with Smarts and Style

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Mean chicks, cliques, and dirty tricks.......2007-01-12

Wonderful help for a 13 year old daughter. She read it with great interest and I feel it helped her understand some of the problems she is experiencing as a 13 year old

A Must for Girls!.......2006-11-10

This book is a must for all young girls. This book is "real" and is a great foundation for developing character for young girls who must deal with the rough tough meaness of the female world. It validates the sad reality and garbage stuff that's really going on among young girls.

Author RETURNABLE GIRL.......2006-11-01

As a therapist who works primarily with teen girls, I applaud any author who writes on this topic, to give insight and help to many girls who are struggling with these issues. It's the reason I wrote my young adult novel, RETURNABLE GIRL, about a teen in foster care and her journey to adoption, amidst the bullying of middle school. [...]

A load of crock........2005-03-16

This book takes heartfelt letters written by girls trusting their most private experiences to a complete stranger (the author) -- and dissects them like a dead frog, telling the girls what they did "wrong" and how they "should" be acting, feeling, behaving if they want to a get a good grade, because this book GRADES every girl in their "First Person" segments.

The book's so-called solutions to complex friendship problems are condescending, written in wittle gurl speak, as if all of the challenges that a teenager faces can be cured by reading one saccharine-sweet paragraph.

This is a great book to give a teenager if you want her to come out acting like a little eye-batting robot who likes to give her friends lectures or follow lemmings over a cliff. Otherwise, I'd recommend books that don't gloss over problems or treat teen's issues like a pre-packaged slab of meat. I just read "Odd Girl Speaks Out" which quotes girls' full experiences without giving too much of a dumbed down response.

It too, however, may not have the answers to life's toughest questions -- but few (if any) books do. For the hardest or most dangerous issues, the best thing you can do is turn to a live person -- and keep turning until you find someone who actually listens to you.

GOOD BOOK!.......2005-03-11

well, i bought this book cos i needed to know a little bit more about teenage behaviors and alittle of their psychology and stuff.

well this is a book well written for girls between 12 and 15 it lets u know why girls behave one way and some others differently, it also says some good ways to deal with them or avoid them etc.

it talks about, the bully, the drama queen etc etc. so its a nice book, i rate it with 4 because is not like a book to read is more like a manual.

but anyways it helps

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Trademark humor but lacking some sense... *SOME SPOILERS*
Courtesy of Teens Read Too
Enjoyable read
Vampy fun!
Stellar!

The Good Ghouls' Guide to Getting Even
Julie Kenner
Manufacturer: Berkley Trade
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ASIN: 0425213919

Book Description

The bestselling author of Carpe Demon takes a bite out of high school in this bloodsucking blast.

Elizabeth Frasier's ticked off. Her junior year of high school was going just fine. But thanks to a bunch of jerkwad vampire jocks, she ended up undead, and with a thirst that a thousand Diet Cokes couldn't quench. Now she's out for blood-and revenge. And she knows exactly what to do...Elizabeth's read Salem's Lot. Separate the good vamps from the bad and wipe out the crowd that did her in. On top of that, she's got to figure out how to be mortal again-unless universities start accepting dead girls.

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Trademark humor but lacking some sense... *SOME SPOILERS*.......2007-07-30

Julie Kenner's brand of humor is clear throughout the book, and she's got teenage angst and dialogue down pat (which is true of her soccer mom demon hunter series as well). Which would seem to make this a shoo-in for at least 4 stars. On the other, though many parts of this book made me laugh, others didn't make sense to me.

**SOME SPOILERS BELOW**

For example, even though the teen protagonist, Beth, herself admits she wasn't quite thinking when she got suckered by Stephen Mills and his pals, there are many instances when she seemed incredibly stupid. All the signs were there that things weren't what they seemed to be when the Queen Bitches invited her to join their squad, but those were discarded. And what bad guy (or good guy for that matter) wouldn't have a product tested before use, esp if it meant a gruesome death if the product didn't work? That is, blind faith probably wouldn't happen. That should have occurred to Beth early on... why would she think that Stephen would use the cream without having someone else test it... which would have been bad news for Beth. Then, when Nelson was unconscious in the gym, that would've been a good time to take care of him, but the thought never occurred to her and she was left with a witness who disappeared. There are several instances of commonsensical things like that that just slipped.

Someone also needs to do some fact-checking. Regardless of whether Beth's dad is a doctor or not, and whether or not Beth has a part-time job in a hospital lab, all blood products in a hospital blood bank are tightly regulated. There's a chronic blood shortage in the USA and elsewhere, each unit of blood is labeled and entered into a database, and whenever the units are removed from the blood bank, they have to be signed out with various forms. Maybe 1 unit of blood (unlikely, but let's be generous; maybe the blood is unusable for whatever reason) could be given out for a student project but several? A dozen?

A "routine" operation can require 6 units of blood or more. Think of how many units would be needed for a trauma patient or a major surgery. No hospital can spare so many units for non-patient care, much less a purported project. Questions would definitely be asked.

Regarding vampires and college. NYU was mentioned. Well, like so many universities, NYU does offer night classes. While it's not the way many students would like to attend college, the opportunity is there. I admit I don't know what reasonable excuse a student like Beth who's going to graduate high school (as opposed to a working adult or one with family) could give for wanting to attend night class rather than regular day classes, but I'm surprised that that option isn't even raised.

There were also loose ends that may have been deliberately left out and might be addressed in the sequel, one of which involved college boys Kevin and his brother. Who are they really and how did they know what was going on at Beth's school and the club where Beth first meets him? The same with Clayton and his grandfather. How did they know about vampires, etc?

**SOME SPOILERS ABOVE**

Things such as the above made what should have been an easy, fun read less smooth than they could have been. I'll be checking out the sequel, Good Ghouls Do, from the library.

See MaryJanice Davidson and Anthony Alongi's Jennifer Scales series as an example of humorous young adult books that work (Jennifer Scales and the Ancient Furnace (A Jennifer Scales Novel, Book 1), Jennifer Scales and the Messenger of Light, and The Silver Moon Elm).

My recommendations for other great young adult books (albeit they're darker tales) are Holly Black's A Modern Faerie Tale series (Tithe: A Modern Faerie Tale, Ironside, and Valiant), Herbie Brennan's The Faerie Wars Chronicles (Faerie Wars, The Purple Emperor, Ruler of the Realm, and the upcoming Faerie Lord), Rachel Caine's Morganville Vampires series (Glass Houses (The Morganville Vampires, Book 1), The Dead Girls' Dance, and the forthcoming Midnight Alley), and Gena Showalter's Teen Alien Huntress series (Red Handed (Teen Alien Huntress), Blacklisted).

Courtesy of Teens Read Too.......2007-07-03

Beth Fasier should have noticed all the signs that were around her. She should have trusted her gut that something was wrong, but instead she just ignored it.

Beginning her junior year, Beth had everything she had worked for. From the possibility of being valedictorian of her class to getting closer to being able to go to school at NYU. But if only Beth hadn't worked so hard, then maybe, just maybe, she wouldn't be where she is today.

It all began when Beth decided to try out for the drill team, only to make her activities seem well-rounded. Unfortunately, Beth didn't make it since Tamara, a very popular cheerleader, told the coach to not let Beth on the team. Tamara had a different motive -- she wanted Beth to be on the cheerleader squad. Right then Beth should have known that something was wrong, but instead, when hearing that hottie Stephen Wills was going to be at one of the cheer practices, Beth knew she had to go. After all, it is Stephen Wills.

Turns out Stephen had asked Tamara to put Beth on the team, since he's had his eye on her for awhile. Of course, Beth was flattered, and when Stephen asked her out on a date Beth just couldn't say no. But when the most popular guy asks someone like Beth out on a date, she should have known that something was just not right.

It was too late for Beth, though, since on her date, Stephen bites Beth -- making her a fellow member of the undead.

Beth's life is over as she knows it, until her academic enemy, Clayton, tell hers that there is a possible chance for her to turn back into her usual self. But can Beth muster up the strength to actually do it?

Known for her books on the paranormal, Julie Kenner puts her own twist on what seems to be a hot topic in most teen novels, vampires. THE GOOD GHOULS' GUIDE TO GETTING EVEN may seem like another typical vampire story, but as the book gets going, readers will begin to notice that this novel is different from the rest of the pack. Fans of the undead will not be disappointed in Julie Kenner's new novel. Be sure to watch out for the sequel, Good Ghouls Do, which releases in October.

Reviewed by: Randstostipher "tallnlankyrn" Nguyen

Enjoyable read.......2007-05-13

I would have given this a 5 for entertainment value alone, but I actually bought it thinking my pre-teen could read it, and I was wrong. Aside from a few 4 letter words (probably less than her 5th grade classmates say in the course of a day) there was sexual content. Not much, but it was there, in the form of fondling and some saucey dialogue.
Now, I enjoyed it and I am 32, but - it will sit on the shelf for like 7 years before I let my 10 year old read it. I don't want her thinking of how good it might feel to have a guy fondle her breast just yet...
Aside from not being clear on the actual age group it is recommended for, my only complaint it I can't stand to see the word schlep which finds its way into every Julie Kenner book I read. However, that is just a personal thing, doesn't affect the quality of the book.
It's good, just read it before you decide to let your child read it.

Vampy fun!.......2007-04-14

I'm a fan of Julie Kenner's books, so I was happy when I saw she wrote a teen book.
I wasn't the least bit disappointed in this book, considering it's target is the teen audience and I'm an adult. I think all teens and even adults will enjoy reading this fun and cute tale of a geeky and unpopular girl named Beth turning into a vampire on her 16th birthday. I cant wait for the sequel!

My recommendations along with this:
Braced2Bite, Fangs 4 Freaks and Dating4Demons all by Serena Robar
Boys That Bite and Stake That! by Mari Mancusi

Stellar!.......2007-04-03

Elizabeth "Beth" Frasier has a totally dysfunctional family. Her mother is a lawyer. Her father is a doctor. You would think having successful, well-to-do parents is a GOOD thing. On the contrary, it means they have ZERO time for her. Before they got divorced six months ago, all Beth's parents did was fight and their grumpiness was hard to deal with. Now, the parents are still the exact same way. The only difference is that they live in separate places. However, their indifference toward Beth comes in handy on her sixteenth birthday though. (Yes, Beth's dad forgot all about her Sweet Sixteenth birthday! As for Beth's mom, she simply had her secretary order a gift certificate to a book store and then ending up giving it to Beth a day late!) But this means that neither parent even noticed that Beth never came home that night ... or that Beth had become a vampire!

Beth has a major crush on Stephen Wills, the high school's star football player. So Beth is thrilled when Stephen suddenly seems to take interest in her. Beth never expects Stephen to kill her or turn her into a vampire! But Stephen has a task that only Beth can do. After all, Beth is smart! She's valedictorian. But all Beth wants is revenge against Stephen and the "popular girls" who lured her into Stephen's clutches.

Beth's best friend, Jenny, is on her side. So is Clayton, after he failed to stake her. According to Clayton, Beth can get her life back if she kills her "Creator" (A.K.A. her Master). Problem is that a vampire cant' stake their Master. And once Beth drinks from a living person, she `s doomed for eternity. Should that happen, Clayton and his grandpa would be gunning for her again. Worse, college aged vampire hunters are in the immediate area. What's an undead girl supposed to do?

***** I have not had this much fun with a teen book in a looong time! Beth is not only smart, but she is witty and filled with sass! Her friends are the same, but Beth just has it all in spades! The story is go great that I did not want it to end. So I am thrilled to find that there will be a second novel in this series. Don't worry, this book will NOT leave you hanging. It is fun watching Beth and her friends get even with Stephen and the cheerleaders, as well as, against the various other popular kids who got her turned into a vampire. But the author, Julie Kenner, is a Master at story telling! Again, the ending does not leave you hanging, but it does set up a problem that will obviously have to be handled in a part two. "Buffy" and "Firefly", move over! There is a new show in town. STELLAR! *****

Reviewed by Detra Fitch of Huntress Reviews.

Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed

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Great Gift For Girls
A resources for parents, teachers, and mentors to read with young females
Excellent Working Template for OPEN dialog
Forget the fear, provoke and nurture that young female voice
Very Disappointed

Respect: A Girl's Guide to Getting Respect & Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed
Courtney Macavinta , and Andrea Vander Pluym
Manufacturer: Free Spirit Publishing
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ASIN: 1575421771

Book Description

To be respected, girls need to know how they want to be treated, treat themselves that way, and let others know (respectfully, of course) to do the same. This smart, savvy book helps teen girls get respect and hold on to it no matter what. It covers topics they deal with daily, like body image, family, friends, the media, school, relationships, and rumors. It confronts tough issues like sexual harassment, date rape, sex, drugs, and alcohol. And it debunks the myths and stereotypes that hold girls back. Sidebars, scenarios, quotes from teens, tips, definitions, activities, and writing exercises get girls' attention and keep them involved. The understanding, supportive "big sister" style inspires trust. Girls learn that respect is connected to everything, that every girl deserves respect, and that respect is always within reach because it starts on the inside.

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Great Gift For Girls.......2006-09-24

I read this book while researching teen abuse and was very impressed. It gets all of those sensitive topics that adults and teens would rather ignore (not just sex, but abuse, eating disorders and difficulties in relationships and friendships) out in the open. The book teaches girls how to make good decisions for themselves while remaining open and communicating with friends and family. The theme is respect through empowerment and is targeted at an age group and gender that often (sadly) feel they have no power.

It's down-to-earth and isn't preachy, which is important because kids tend to rebel against that method. I didn't always listen to my parents as a pre-teen and teen (shocker of the century) and I could've used the guidelines in this book to make better decisions rather than trying to do everything on my own. I especially like the activities in the book -- makes it interactive and personal. It's a great gift for a pre-teen or teen girl -- much better investment than a new shirt or iTunes gift certificate!

A resources for parents, teachers, and mentors to read with young females.......2006-09-02

I picked up Respect with a critical eye, fully prepared to read some fluffy, new-age, condescendingly grrrl-empowering text. Trust me, none of those adjectives fit this terrific resource. Authors Macavinta and Vander Pluym provide talking points for discussion and personal introspection on topics ranging from friends to family to the opposite sex to body image and self-image. The book is not a guide about what to think or do, but a template for drafting one's own guidelines and ethos. The authors continually recommend that young readers keep a journal and use specific topics and questions as launching points for making entries in the jounral.

I read the chapter about romantic relationships with special interest. As a twenty-something professional, I considered the text from the viewpoint of a mentor or parent who is concerned about a youngster, as well as from my not-too-distant viewpoint as a rebellious teenager who was just knew she much smarter than her own parents. Well, it works. This is not a preachy book, so the reviewer below who found it non-abstinence-insistent was right. The text encourages parents and daughters to have open discussions (with specific topics and starting points), so that the daughter can form her own personal boundaries. If a tween girl drafts her own idea of boundaries and limits, with her own healthy reasoning, instead of being berated by parents and adults, she is going to follow them more intensely. One discussion topic is female sexuality in popular media, with the "shock" of Judy Blume's Are You There God, It's Me, Margaret in the 1970's and Eve Ansler's Vagina Monologues in the 1990's. Just reading that section makes me want to go back and talk to my 50-year-old mother about her experiences in the sixties versus her experiences raising me and taking me to sex education seminars with the Girl Scouts. I imagine it will raise healthy, bonding dialogue for parents of the next generation, too.

Buy this worthwhile book, a package of sticky note tabs, a blank journal, and prepare for some open, important discussions in a well-structured, non-threatening environment.

Excellent Working Template for OPEN dialog.......2006-03-09

I have two girls, and we went through chapaters that were relevent to us, right now, and used many of the suggestions. One of the things I love about the book is it promotes open dialog between parents, but also sisters and friends. I have seen it work in action, and my daughters made up their own 'sisterhood' contract which we posted on the refrigerator, and refer too, often. The chapters you can review first if there are subjects that are sensitive to you, however, I found the 'sex' chapter very well written and received by both girls. Our next step is to have a 'sisterhood sleepover' where the girls invite their friends, and we have some open discussions on self respect and respect of others. This is an excellent tool for a parent, or guardian of a young person.

Forget the fear, provoke and nurture that young female voice.......2006-01-04

As an educator of young men and women I commend the authors for writing a book that a young audience would actually use. Yes use. As reviewers have noted this book speaks with a tone of gentle authority without being preachy. More precisely, the book gives girls real-life problem solving guidance. Finally, this is a thought-provoking book for young women which also includes practical advice. An honest to goodness "Here's how I handled that situation and here are a few more suggestions" primer. I recommend it for classroom use.

Very Disappointed.......2006-01-02

My 12 year old daughter received this book as a gift and I am so glad that I decided to read it first. The book is very "teen-friendly" in it's approach, but it's message is anything but innocent. Let me quote an example from the book, "Your dad or mom might have told you not to have sex until marriage, but....the question is, what do YOU belive is right for you?" There are many exaples such as this throughout this book. I find this appalling and totally disrespectful not only parents, but to teachers and community leaders who are trying to encourage girls not only to have respect for themselves, but also others. I Strongly urge parents to read this book before letting their daughters even open the first page. I plan on throwing our copy into the trash.

Amazing You: Getting Smart About Your Private Parts

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LOVE THIS BOOK!
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Amazing You: Getting Smart About Your Private Parts
Gail Saltz
Manufacturer: Dutton Juvenile
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ASIN: 0525473890

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"Mom, where do babies come from?" Many parents live in fear of the day their child asks that question—which inevitably happens, often as early as the preschool years. Here is a picture book designed especially for young children who are becoming sexually aware but aren't ready to learn about sexual intercourse. Written with warmth and honesty, Amazing You! presents clear and age-appropriate information about reproduction, birth, and the difference between girls' and boys' bodies. Lynne Cravath's whimsical illustrations enliven the text, making this a book that parents will gladly share with their young ones.

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Great!.......2007-10-16

After reading several of the choices... I loved this one. It is very factual and more scientific in nature. It did not have opinions interjected as other books do. It is my job to give the opinions and cultural practices and I appreciated the plain facts in this one. I chose Changing you for my 6 year old because they were so similar, this one is great for younger kids. Cute pictures too!

Todder and Adult friendly.......2007-08-16

I had dreaded the day that this topic would have to be tackled. My daughter knows all about her body but knew relatively nothing about the male body. I was happy that the book was not too graphic or complicated. My daughter understood without being scared or confused.I was also put at ease in explaining the male form to her. I only gave 4 stars because I did feel that breasts and nipples on both sexes should have been addressed. However, I do agree that perhaps the author left out those topics to allow parents the option.

Wonderful Introduction (to the body) Book .......2007-07-28

When my six year old boy became more curious about his body I came to Amazon to search for an appropriate book. I truly did not know it would be such a difficult task. After reading the reviews for a number of books I was very surprised (disgusted was more like it), especially when I learned of the books that promoted group masturbation as "ok" and "experimental". Finally I came upon this book. It was perfect for my boy. In fact, my seven year old girl and three year old son too enjoyed the book. They giggled at some of the pictures which made the book fun as well as educational. There are only two pages that were a bit too advanced for my children (the gargantuan penis complete with sperm and the oversized uterus). I gracefully skipped those two pages, they were just beginning to understand the maturing of the body and that was a bit much. However I will insert that back in, no pun intended, when I read it in the future. Lastly, I have spotted the book in all three of my childrens rooms. They went back on their own and have had a chance to read at their own pace. I recommend this book to conservative parents with young children.

LOVE THIS BOOK!.......2007-06-12

I have a very "inquisitive" 5 year old girl and this book seems to have helped subdue our "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" episodes. It is very descriptive in a biological sense, but the pics are all in cartoon-like depiction. Definitely recommend this book.

Found a little help.......2007-06-11

This was exactly what I needed to help me answer ALL the questions that my 6 yr old had about her/ girl's bodies without getting into the issues of intercourse.

After a lot of research, I came across this option and i was not disappointed. I have already recommended this for this age group.

Big Girls Don't Whine: Getting On With the Great Life God Intends

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Real Strength for Life
Disappointed
Learning How to be a Grown Up Christian woman.
Excellent!
Little Girls Can Grow Up

Big Girls Don't Whine: Getting On With the Great Life God Intends
Jan Silvious
Manufacturer: Thomas Nelson
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ASIN: 0849944414

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No one wants to be labeled a whiner, but many of us go through life with a "poor me," victim mentality that sounds a whole lot like whining. God never intended for us to act like "little girls," says Jan Silvious. His goal is for each of us to live as "big girls"-mature Christian women-who are capable of enjoying the richness of life He has planned.

In Big Girls Don't Whine, Jan helps women:

Move beyond the past and on to healthy relationships,
Choose to be proactive rather than let life just "happen,"
Discover their full potential,
And become everything He made them to be.

So how can we tell if we're living life as an immature 'little girl" or a confident "big girl?"

A little girl…

Is insecure
Becomes the victim of circumstances
Says "I can't"
Manipulates

A big girl…

Is secure
Rests in God's sovereignty
Says, "I can"
Communicates

In Big Girls Don't Whine, Jan Silvious calls us to be real women in a real world, free to experience a life of full of potential and vision. This book is the how-to manual for making it happen.

Customer Reviews:

Real Strength for Life.......2007-04-11

Almost ignored this treasure because of what I thought was a frivolous name. Only a book for women who really want to grow up and help others to grow up also. This book was used in a large group of women, and it was amazing to see the hope and caring as women opened up to share with each other. This is a very meaty book, but an easy read. You will wonder why you have not heard of it before, and why this author is not internationally known. Tackling tough topics for tough times, Big Girls Don't Whine offers hope for women today.

Disappointed.......2006-11-07

I found this book to be insulting to women as a whole. It talked down to the reader and assumed that because you were reading it you were automatically a spoiled, whimpering brat. This book will not disgrace my library shelves.

Learning How to be a Grown Up Christian woman........2006-06-29

This book can be read alone, but is best when done as a study in a group setting. It has been very helpful in seeing areas in which we all need to "Grow Up" and act and react as mature, loving Christian women. This book is good for any woman who wants to make her relationships with all those around her more respectful, loving and peaceful.

Excellent!.......2005-08-18

Jan Silvous has a warm, hilarious personality that makes her books easy to read but still heart-penetrating. This one in particular was wonderful for me. Not only did she find a non-preachy way to help me see where some of my weaknesses were, but she also helped me learn to overcome them, to be a "big girl". The chapter on overcoming insecurity was especially meaningful. This is a great book to read (with a very unique take on well-worn topics) and I think it would fit great in a book club or small group setting as well.

Little Girls Can Grow Up.......2004-06-02

I laughed at the title, but that laugh was pure nervousness. Was there really immaturity in my whining? Little did I know, that and more.

Jan Silvious shares the secrets to finding - becoming - that Big Girl you always wanted to be when you were little. The same Big Girl who elusively hid after you left home, got lost in your laundry and fowled up your marriage by missing the boat. Jan is truthful, humorous, convicting and loving all in the same paragraph. It makes the "ouch!" concepts easier to assimilate.

I concluded several years ago that there was more to spiritual growth than memorizing facts about God. I just lacked the description of what true spiritual maturity looks like lived out. Silvious has done a splendid job comparing and contracting behaviors to paint a picture of what maturity should look like in grown women. The scary thing? Realizing that there are basketsful of immature, whiny adult women walking the streets. Scarier? Realizing you're one of them!

What excited and challenged me as I read this book was the comparison and contrast of immature Little Girl thinking to mature Big Girl thinking. Silvious logically laid out why some behaviors like whining, grudge holding, smothering friendships and a whole slew of others are immaturity waiting to blow up in your face. I like how she followed through to show how these behaviors and consequences play out in the lives of singles, married women and moms. This is not just a book for married women with kids!

If you struggle with crisis and conflict, the two large chapters on those alone are worth the price of the book. But don't read it for just those two chapters, you'll miss gems in the others. When you're done reading, you'll want to be a Big Girl too.

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repetitive

An essential!

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Shacking Up: The Smart Girl's Guide to Living in Sin Without Getting Burned
Stacy Whitman , and Wynne Whitman
Manufacturer: Broadway
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The must-have guide for any woman who’s ever thought about saying “yes” to the other big question: Will you move in with me?

More and more couples are choosing to live together before tying the knot—for convenience, to save money and, most importantly, to see if they’re compatible. While living together can be an exciting way to take your relationship to the next level, it can also present a host of new questions and challenges.

With its fresh, girlfriend-to-girlfriend manner, Shacking Up walks you through every step of the cohabitation process, from making the initial decision to breaking up or getting married. Beginning with a readiness quiz to help you decide if you and your honey are prepared to take the plunge, authors Stacy and Wynne Whitman provide a wealth of hands-on advice from lawyers, psychologists and financial planners as well as entertaining, true-life stories from couples with shacking up experience. Topics include: breaking the news to your family; managing and merging your finances; protecting yourself legally; real-estate decisions; and day-to-day dilemmas such as chores, privacy, and keeping the spark alive. Whether you opt for wedding bells or decide he’s not the one for you, Shacking Up is a stylish, empowering handbook for staying smart, savvy, and true to yourself along the road to happily ever after.

Customer Reviews:

repetitive.......2007-10-02

If you are in love with your man, skip the first hundred pages, which simply asks the reader: Are you sure you want to be with him? Assuming the answer is yes, you can move on to the actual shacking up part. This has some good info, but is drawn out for far too long. You can pick this book up in the store and skim the few useful chapters to get the main ideas. I gave up reading this book towards the end. I also read Unmarried to Each Other, which I enjoyed. Check out that book instead.

An essential!.......2007-03-30

This book is absolutely *essential* for anyone shacking up. Whether or not your family (or your significant other's family) objects, this book offers helpful hints on cohabitating for you and him. It is written from a young, insider point of view by a magazine author and an attorney knowledgeable in this area. This is NOT a boring book on cohabitation trends, but rather is an exciting exploration into issues to come as you embark into living with your significant other. I appreciated the authors' depth of knowledge and ability to relate.

Obnoxious........2007-02-23

Everything reviewer Lisa A. Lassner said below and more. This book is written like a neverending, obnoxious Cosmo or Glamour article. It tries to be "girlfriend to girlfriend" and it just comes off as ridiculous. Everything positive that I got out of "Unmarried to Each Other" was shaken by this book because of its "no legal marriage = no commitment" attitude. Devoting ONE chapter at the end of the book to alternative couples is just insulting.

It's light on research, light on footnotes and light on reality.

Seriously, get "Unmarried to Each Other: The Essential Guide to Living with Each Other as an Unmarried Couple" instead. Pair it with "Living Together: A Legal Guide for Unmarried Couples" and you have a winning combination that blows this book out of the water.

A Guy's Review........2007-02-02

My girlfriend and I decided to move in together a little while back and she asked me to read this book which she had recently purchased in anticipation of our decision. She said it would be a great conversation starter and a way for us to talk about things that we hadn't discussed before. I said "sure", and read it, and thought it was well worth my time.

It is written by women, and for a woman's point of view, but I thought it applied equally as well to guys.

From my point of view, the advice in the book was very good. I especially liked how real life examples were brought into play every time the author wanted to illustrate a specific point -sometimes for better, and sometimes for worse.

I like how the author talked about the financial commitments of a move-in (which can be as important as the emotional commitment). Couples often have a hard time talking about money, like it sort of debases the relationship, or is a taboo subject. But I believe that if you love someone, you should want to protect them, and you would want to make sure that if anything ever happened to you (or your relationship) that you'd both want to emerge whole to start again. No you can't plan for disaster, but you can plan for what the author calls "a bonk on the head which changes your personality forever which then leads to a parting of ways". It makes sense.

Does anyone ever intend to leave a relationship if they make the decision to cohabitate? I doubt it -but that's exactly the point. The book speaks about all the things you need to consider about timing, about commitment, and the views of your relatives. I would hope that no one ever broke up because they took a couple of months longer to rent a place together while they were sorting these issues out. Take a deep breath, read this book, and compare your experiences to those inside. If when you read it you feel closer to your partner, then great! But if you get a scrunchy feeling in your belly, then stop, take a step back, and wait a few more months while you talk through some of these issues.

And finally, I wanted to share some of the notes that I jotted down while reading the book...

"Be accountable for your feelings. A person isn't MAKING you feel sad, angry, or frustrated; you're ALLOWING yourself to feel these things. By taking responsibility for your actions and emotions, you'll give yourself the power to change the situation".

"When faced with a stalemate, evaluate whether the issue is more important to your beau, or to you. If it means more to him, give in. If you, don't back down."

"With problems, focus on solutions rather than the stuff that can't be changed."

Sound advice, and highly recommended!

Not bad.......2007-01-20

I feel that this book, though it brings up some interesting points (I was especially appreciative of the legal and financial advice), I found much of the covered topics to be for people with little common sense. Several of the women interviewed lived and stayed in relationships with men for years and years before even bringing up the idea of marriage, and then are devastated when they admit that they're not the marrying type. I am also of the opinion that if you are in a stable and serious relationship that is moving towards cohabitation, you should already know where your partner stands on marriage, children, or any possible future plan concerning your relationship. I get the feeling that this book is geared towards women who might not really know their significant others all that well.

The Nice Guys' Guide to Getting Girls 2: You CAN be a Nice Guy & STILL Attract Women!

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To men who want to become their women's doormats
USELESS
This is a scam
The nice guys guide to NOT getting girls
more like 'introverts guide to getting laid'

The Nice Guys' Guide to Getting Girls 2: You CAN be a Nice Guy & STILL Attract Women!
John Fate
Manufacturer: Ajackal Publishing
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ASIN: 0974604291

Book Description

In the highly anticipated sequel to their smash hit The Nice Guys' Guide to Getting Girls, John Fate offers his latest findings on how to meet women on online dating sites, the keys to meeting women at parties and social events, how to confidentally approach groups of women, how to keep that conversation flowing, and much more.

Customer Reviews:

To men who want to become their women's doormats.......2007-07-13

I've read a lot of books about dating.

I rarely give one star to a book. But this one deserved my coveted special award.

TWO THUMBS DOWN!

USELESS.......2007-05-26

I don't know how this book even made it to publication! What a bunch of useless drivel. I DID read it front to back though. It constantly, and I mean constantly, references the author's previous two "works," which gets extremely annoying. This is merely an "add-on" to their last two books, which, if this one is any indication, must be full of useless information as well. Stay away from this particular volume in any case.

If you want a good book on how to approach people (yes women too) and keep conversation flowing, I'd recommend "How to talk to anyone" by Leil Lowndes.

This is a scam.......2006-01-10

I bought this book thinking it would have helpful pointers with women, but this 'complete guide' is nothing but a bunch of fluff. 16 pages into this book i come across a sentence that should have been on the BACK of the book. It says, this guide assumes that you have read our other two books, blah, and blah. At the start of every chapter they shamelessly plug thier other books, "in our last book, blah, we taught you how to blah, now continuing on from that point..." Do not buy this book, it is very misleading and has little helpful information in it.

The nice guys guide to NOT getting girls.......2005-05-16

If there was an option for 0 stars, this book would definitely deserve it. The two fellows who wrote this book are scammers. Please do not buy this book unless you want to waste your money. If you use any concept from here, you will make every girl run for the hills because there will be no attraction.

more like 'introverts guide to getting laid'.......2004-10-03

This book is extremely remedial. The book is mostly fluff with about 4 solid concepts. The guys in the book do not appear to be 'nice guys' either, but horny toads with poor social skills. the book does nothing to address actual relationships beyond the introduction and the bedroom.

Conclusion: pretty much garbage.

The Bad Girl's Guide to Getting What You Want

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I'm working on it!
DON'T BUY THIS BOOK UNLESS U LIKE THROWING$$$ AWAY
Great fluff to give to every soon to be college girl
Fun Fluff
Amusing fluff

The Bad Girl's Guide to Getting What You Want
Cameron Tuttle
Manufacturer: Chronicle Books
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0811828964

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Deep down, every woman wants to be a Bad Girl. But after living a life of sweetness and light, it's sometimes difficult to stray from the path. Cameron Tuttle (author of the riotously funny Bad Girl's Guide to the Open Road) points the way in The Bad Girl's Guide to Getting What You Want. Tuttle offers up tips to help even the saintliest soul find her inner Bad Girl--and then use that power to get better dates (date yourself for a while first, until you're ready to dive in the dating pool); a better job (don't just settle for job satisfaction, aim for "job jubilation, job nirvana, job titillation"); and better parking (pray to Gladys, the universal parking goddess). With its sassy, iced-lavender cover--just the right size to slip into your purse--the Guide is jam-packed with practical and not-so-practical-but-funny advice, including excellent answers to one of life's most pressing questions: What do you do with old bridesmaid dresses? "Drench with ketchup and dress up as Carrie for Halloween"; "Sew into board bags for your snowboard and surfboard"; and, best of all, "Make your bridesmaids wear them in your wedding." Remember: it's great to be a girl, but it's even better to be a Bad Girl. --Sunny "Bad Girl" Delaney

Book Description

This hilarious follow-up to the wildly popular Bad Girl's Guide to the Open Road is the ultimate guide to getting it—anything and everything—in Bad Girl style. Delayed gratification is a thing of the past with this inspired collection of tips and tricks for scoring love, fame, money, power, parking spaces, and other essentials. With sure-fire schemes for everything from free food and airline miles to insider lingo for paving pesky resume gaps, The Bad Girl's Guide to Getting What You Want shows how to fake it fabulously. But spin and strategy are just the beginning—the truth can be an even more wicked weapon. Learn the secrets of men's hair, the landlord's Achilles' heel, and the maitre d's darkest desires, and the dream date, great apartment, and best table are yours! Racy bad-girl confessions and edgy illustrations make this indispensable volume even dishier. Ethics are overrated—it's the results that count! Pack this sassy package in your purse and knowing what you want is as good as getting it.

Customer Reviews:

I'm working on it!.......2007-06-20

I'm not a "bad girl" yet, but the book has inspired me to bring some sheltered "wants" out in the open and into my personality. The book is both funny and an easy to swallow dose of confidence.

DON'T BUY THIS BOOK UNLESS U LIKE THROWING$$$ AWAY.......2006-11-04

THIS BOOK WAS HORRIBLE! IT WAS SO STUPID, I CANNOT BELIEVE I WASTED MY TIME READING NOR MY MONEY BUYING IT. IT IS COMPLETELY IMMATURE AND RIDICULOUS. I CAN'T BELIEVE SOMEONE WOULD PUBLISH THIS CRAP!

Great fluff to give to every soon to be college girl.......2006-08-17

Just buy several copies of the book and give it to your daughter and for her to give to her friends.

Fun Fluff.......2005-10-14

If you are looking for something to stimulate your brain, this isn't it. However, if you are just looking for a good laugh, you'll enjoy The Bad Girl's Guide. It's funny and light, and definitely a good way to pass a little bit of time.

Amusing fluff.......2005-09-15

It's nice to have a cheeky-style self-help book. Tuttle's irreverence is refreshing and a couple of her lines made me laugh. Nonetheless, it's forgettable nonsense and at $14, a tad too expensive for what is offered the reader.

The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Getting Girls (The Pocket Idiot's Guide)

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The most compact guide to getting girls!
Fabulously fun reading!

The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Getting Girls (The Pocket Idiot's Guide)
Lisa Altalida
Manufacturer: Alpha
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Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 1592572790
Release Date: 2004-10-05

Book Description

Straight shooting techniques for success with the ladies.

Here, in this terrific, pocket-sized guide are all the tools needed to successfully approach and talk to a woman, get her phone number, and get a date. With tips on what to do and what not to do, this book covers everything from reading body language and using a wingman to learning what girls are looking for in terms of looks, money, and career.

• Straightforward advice and practical tips for guys from the women they're trying to meet
• Includes topics such as reading signals, moving in for the pick-up, starting a conversation, and keeping it going
• There are 100 million single adults in the U.S.
• According to a recent It's Just Lunch survey, 76% of men believe that a relationship is more important than their career

Customer Reviews:

The most compact guide to getting girls!.......2005-09-16

I love this book! Its simple,straight forward and tells you what you need to know,when you need to know it and why.This is the most compact book on getting girls/picking up women type books I've read.This book covers so much yet its a small book.There is so much advice in here.If you see a woman you'd like to meet,it tells you what to look for.What signals are you getting from the woman?It then helps you make the next move.There are very few books that cover everything and this is one of those rare books.If the full version of this book was printed it would be THE best book! This book is inexpensive.For value this book is a gem.Every guy should have a copy of this book.

I also recommend these books to buy with this book:
1)"U.S.S."(undercover sex signals) By Leil Lowndes.
2)"Understanding women" By Romy Miller.
3)"How to meet the right woman" By Roger Ratcliff,David Conaway & Diana Ohlsson.

Fabulously fun reading!.......2004-12-01

This is a great book for women and men alike who are looking for love, friendship and fun! The book is such an easy read that you can practically finish reading it in between comercials. Sure, the title of "Getting Girls" may sound bit out there, but every chapter rings truth. For the guys, it's a useful guide and real life tips that can be used by anyone. For the girls, it's such a fun read that you can share the fun tips with all your guy friends. The truth is I gave the book to a guy friend who found it quite insightful. The real question is when is Lisa Altalida going to come out with the sequal "Idiot's Guide to Keeping the Girl"! Trust me, this will be one fun stocking stuffer for everyone on your xmas list and they will love you for it!

Getting to Know the Real You: 50 Fun Quizzes Just for Girls

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Good pre-teen book
Getting to Know the Real You: 50 Fun Quizzes Just for Girls
Fun Quiz Book

Getting to Know the Real You: 50 Fun Quizzes Just for Girls
Harriet S. Mosatche , and Elizabeth K. Lawner
Manufacturer: Three Rivers Press
ProductGroup: Book
Binding: Paperback

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ASIN: 0761529543
Release Date: 2002-07-23

Book Description

Cool Quizzes & Hot Tips About Growing Up
Talking about life with your friends can be one of the best things about growing up! You laugh and learn and even figure out parts of life you never understood before. You find out about your friends and yourself—who you are, what you like or don't like, and how you can become the person you want to be.

Inside are clever quizzes and creative tips about moods, emotions, self-esteem, family and friends, school, and boys! Full of fun and written by a caring mom and her teenage daughter, this hip little helper will teach you and your friends how to feel great about yourselves and growing up.

Quiz topics include:
·Are you a true friend?
·Is your self-esteem sky-high or down in the dumps
·What embarrasses you most?
·Does a special guy like you?
·How much do you know about your body?
·Are you happy enough?
·And more!

Customer Reviews:

Good pre-teen book.......2007-03-08

My granddaughter took this book with her everywhere for the first few days and then she lost interest. I think it was because she is such a prolific reader, she was looking for something more challenging.

Getting to Know the Real You: 50 Fun Quizzes Just for Girls.......2006-03-10

Fantastic book for my teenage daughter. She was constantly on-line searching for quizzes and making them up to pass along to friends - so this book was a great hit with her. The quizzes are cool. I wondered if she'd think they were "lame", but she's loves the book. It's always open on the coffee table.

Fun Quiz Book.......2002-08-01

The day after I bought this book, a bunch of my friends slept over at my house, and we spent the whole night doing the quizzes. We found out so much about ourselves and each other and became even better friends. My mom kept telling us we had to go to sleep, but we couldn't put the book down. Since you can take these quizzes more than once, my friends and I are already planning another sleepover in a few months so we can see how we've changed.

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